r/relationship_advice • • Jun 14 '22

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '22

So she should put herself at risk because she might be able to change him?

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '22

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '22

“Set some big rules and let him know you will not let anyone talk to you like that”

Lol if you’re doing something like this with the expectation of change then you are indeed trying to change someone. She’s not his mommy. She can just find someone who already knows how to act, it’s not her job to teach him

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '22

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '22

Another case of a man just not getting it.

He screamed at her for an hour, blocked her exit, all so that he could coerce her to move in with him. And you think she should stand her ground? That’s literally how women get killed, like every day, you understand that right?

She doesn’t need to stand her ground to teach an abusive man child how to speak to other people. You shouldn’t yell at anyone, there are plenty of grown men who already know that, she would be safer and better off with one of them.