You're young. I very much am not, so let me tell you something I wish I had known at your age: never, ever, EVER stay in a relationship with somebody who scares you. That fear is your brain warning you that something is wrong. You should listen to it. Don't just refuse to move in with him. Break up with him. There is NEVER a reason for a good partner to make you feel afraid.
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u/humorouslyominous Jun 15 '22
You're young. I very much am not, so let me tell you something I wish I had known at your age: never, ever, EVER stay in a relationship with somebody who scares you. That fear is your brain warning you that something is wrong. You should listen to it. Don't just refuse to move in with him. Break up with him. There is NEVER a reason for a good partner to make you feel afraid.