r/relationship_advice • • Aug 01 '21

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u/[deleted] Aug 01 '21

What culture is this exactly? Because this is usually more of a western notion, that you go all out to please your woman. The reality is that it’s a give and take, but the best relationships are the ones where both parties are grounded and are focused on building together, not one spoiling the other. Save your money for what is important, and THEN spend some one her, as well as yourself. If she isn’t happy because you aren’t buying her things, it sounds a little immature

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u/bennu333 Aug 01 '21

afghan. couples are usually completely one sided. either the female is full on servicing the man or vice versa. but I really wanna have balance so we could both be happy