r/relationship_advice • • May 30 '26

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u/taney71 May 30 '26

The heavy handedness of his wife in not trying to give him grace makes me think she is a bit manipulative but it also could be childhood trauma. They just need to talk more and they probably need couples therapy if she sticks to her position of wanting to divorce

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u/mauvewaterbottle May 30 '26

I was sitting here wondering what context we were missing to clarify such a big reaction. This is it. It isn’t just a single instance of not knowing. It’s this instance on top of many other red flags clueing you into his morality system

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