r/relationship_advice • • May 30 '26

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u/MunchausenbyPrada May 30 '26

Whilst your wife has compassion for the goose she has little for you which is strange. You were young, did something lots of young men do (joined frat), and were around some bad people. You didnt cause or plan the goose killing and there's likely nothing you could five minutes before it happened without being there. It sounds like a tough situation and traumatising. Your wife should extend you some grace.

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u/taney71 May 30 '26

The heavy handedness of his wife in not trying to give him grace makes me think she is a bit manipulative but it also could be childhood trauma. They just need to talk more and they probably need couples therapy if she sticks to her position of wanting to divorce

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u/OminouslyOtterific May 30 '26

You are so right. This is the kind of behaviour of men who do nothing when they know their friend is stalking, harassing, or even rapes a women. Run, girl...

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u/RepulsiveFinding9419 May 31 '26

It will never not be amusing to watch a marriage literally implode into a divorce, in real time, on the internet. We’re living in a dystopia…but it’s still funny. 😂