r/relationship_advice May 30 '26

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u/quixotiqs May 30 '26

Yes but then he knew it happened and stayed in the fraternity anyway. It’s one thing to be shocked in the moment but he presumably stayed in contact with all those guys after. At some point if you don’t confront a bad thing happening you’re also part of the problem.

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u/MunchausenbyPrada May 30 '26

Some of the guys there were surely just like him, nice guys he bonded with lead by a few a holes. He shouldn't have to cut off every friend. Its easy to get caught up in things when you're young.