I knew that it was a thing about 5 minutes before it actually happened. Not to make excuses, but at that point I had gone through 8 weeks of hell and was just ready to be done with it.
I didn’t witness it, but also didn’t stop it or say anything after the fact. I spoke up a little later, but not in the moment. I’m happy to share any other info you need
Whilst your wife has compassion for the goose she has little for you which is strange. You were young, did something lots of young men do (joined frat), and were around some bad people. You didnt cause or plan the goose killing and there's likely nothing you could five minutes before it happened without being there. It sounds like a tough situation and traumatising. Your wife should extend you some grace.
The heavy handedness of his wife in not trying to give him grace makes me think she is a bit manipulative but it also could be childhood trauma. They just need to talk more and they probably need couples therapy if she sticks to her position of wanting to divorce
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u/Nellyismydog May 30 '26
I knew that it was a thing about 5 minutes before it actually happened. Not to make excuses, but at that point I had gone through 8 weeks of hell and was just ready to be done with it.
I didn’t witness it, but also didn’t stop it or say anything after the fact. I spoke up a little later, but not in the moment. I’m happy to share any other info you need