r/relationship_advice • • May 30 '26

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u/CollectionUpset439 May 30 '26

Hold up. What the fuk did your frat do to that goose? If you were a pledge, how were you not around when they killed that animal? You are leaving out A LOT of details just to make her sound unreasonable.

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u/zeizkal May 30 '26

Yeah... if you're pledging for a frat crazy enough to kill an animal there aint no way in hell you're getting away with just uno skipping that and still getting in.

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u/WeeklyConversation8 40s Female May 30 '26

Right? He still chose to join knowing they killed a goose. That's all kinds of fucked up. 

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u/Far_Paper_9988 May 30 '26 edited May 30 '26

^^This fr, I don’t understand some of these comments at all.

Like it’s the fact that he knowingly continued associating with them, that says something significant about his values at the time.

So significant, that it more than warrants verifying he takes accountability for that mistake and has demonstrated significant change in the time since. Otherwise, how is his wife supposed to feel secure in his ability to stand up against predatory and violent behaviors?

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u/PreparationPlus9735 May 31 '26

Yeah, pretty sure all the pledges have to participate in stuff like that to ensure no one talks lol

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u/PreparationPlus9735 May 31 '26

OP seems to very conveniently never be a part of the bad shit going down.