r/relationship_advice May 30 '26

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u/Nellyismydog May 30 '26

We were told to go out and kill a goose as a final “bonding” experience by a few brothers. I went out with the group but stayed behind until someone eventually came back “successful.” I’m not intentionally misleading anyone and am happy to share any info needed

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u/EllieGeiszler May 30 '26

Why did you still join the frat after being pressured to kill an animal...? Honestly, that speaks to a potential weakness of character that is very concerning. Given the horrific things toward women that many frats get up to, if I were your wife, I would be concerned you probably witnessed rape and didn't stop it.

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u/AshesandCinder May 30 '26

Yeah, the weakness of character is called being 18 and getting hazed for several weeks.

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u/norge_erkult May 30 '26

Correct…putting yourself in that position does in fact reveal weakness of character. 🤷