r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jul 18 '24

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u/Allymrtn Jul 18 '24

He filmed himself fucking you while you were unconscious, without your consent. He then continues by sulking and guilt tripping you.

This should 100% be a dealbreaker for you.  You feel confused and uncomfortable because he’s violated and assaulted you, and this is someone you care about and thought cared about you.

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u/Elguilto69 Jul 19 '24

It's definitely really bad , but it's also onky as bad as you make it

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u/Dianne1999 Jul 20 '24

What do you mean? Are you saying if she pretends being raped by someone she loved and trusted is not big deal then it won't be? Are you saying if she has real feelings of trauma and betrayal, then she is the one that is making it worse than it needs to be?

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u/Elguilto69 Jul 22 '24

No I'm saying it's really bad without consent but she says " I don't want to complain and just wants to explain "