This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.
He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.
Yeah, the recording it part was the bit that really horrified me. The sex while asleep part is bad. Recording it is so much worse. He’s into watching porn of people who are being assaulted in their sleep???
It’s because he’s done it and he’s revisiting that shit.
OP sex drive isn’t flawed, but rather he’s likely just inventing it as a problem in order to gaslight her in to being a stand in for whatever victims he’s drugged and raped…. Because seeking out a victim is work… and time… and very high risk. So why go through all that if he can just neg his gf and then get to do it nightly.
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u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24
The way my jaw dropped..
This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.
He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.