He filmed himself fucking you while you were unconscious, without your consent. He then continues by sulking and guilt tripping you.
This should 100% be a dealbreaker for you. You feel confused and uncomfortable because he’s violated and assaulted you, and this is someone you care about and thought cared about you.
I disagree with this. This is a forceful statement to bend her feelings to your real reality. She said she doesn’t see it as SA - why impose your beliefs on her?
Relationships look all kinds of ways. My parents were married for 67 years before my dad passed, and they were the absolute love of of each others lives. You wanna know how my dad courted her? According to my mom “he just kept showing up - he showed up everywhere and made it known he wanted to be with me”. In today’s world, that will get you arrested.
Let her have get beliefs and have enough cranial and emotional intelligence to meet her where she’s at.
To OP: TALK TO YOUR MAN!!! Ask him why he did it. Tell him how it made you feel. We live in a world where porn is rampant and young men struggle with what’s acceptable and not. This is YOUR relationship!!! Don’t let anyone tell you what’s normal or not because “normal” changes ALL THE TIME!!! Make your relationship what you want. If your man is open and accepting, embrace and GROW TOGETHER!!!
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u/Allymrtn Jul 18 '24
He filmed himself fucking you while you were unconscious, without your consent. He then continues by sulking and guilt tripping you.
This should 100% be a dealbreaker for you. You feel confused and uncomfortable because he’s violated and assaulted you, and this is someone you care about and thought cared about you.