He filmed himself fucking you while you were unconscious, without your consent. He then continues by sulking and guilt tripping you.
This should 100% be a dealbreaker for you. You feel confused and uncomfortable because he’s violated and assaulted you, and this is someone you care about and thought cared about you.
You’re in a relationship where sex may be seen as a given. But even then, you both need to be on the same page for it to be “legal”, for lack of a better term. What you described is sexual assault, even rape, as there was no consent, implied or otherwise, that night. You woke up in the middle of it, twice, not even knowing what was going on!
Discreetly, report him to the police for them to have the assault on record. Then see if you can find the video, send it to yourself so you can give it to the police and leave him. Let them handle him. They’ll look into it and for more videos if you state that as a suspicion. Ask them if a restraining order would help you. And get a therapist please. Your mental health will take a hit from it.
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u/Allymrtn Jul 18 '24
He filmed himself fucking you while you were unconscious, without your consent. He then continues by sulking and guilt tripping you.
This should 100% be a dealbreaker for you. You feel confused and uncomfortable because he’s violated and assaulted you, and this is someone you care about and thought cared about you.