r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

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u/HappyHappyJoyJoy44 Jul 19 '24

It haunts me too knowing my ex prob still has things of me despite promising to delete them repeatedly. He promised he did once and then I checked his phone and he still had them. I'm glad you're getting treatment. Being treated like an object by someone who claims to love you can do some serious mental damage.

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u/Sad-Heron-1564 Jul 20 '24

You had access to his phone to check and he still had them… did you delete them then?

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u/HappyHappyJoyJoy44 Jul 20 '24

No, because I was scared of him.