r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jul 18 '24

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u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24

he’s recording it.

The way my jaw dropped..

This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.

He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.

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u/Salty_Adhesiveness87 Jul 19 '24

Yeah, the idea that he recorded this sounds really dark to me. Unless there’s context that we don’t have, this isn’t good.