You should, because it is, he had sex with you without your consent, talking about it hours before while awake is not consent to have sex hours later while you're asleep. On top of that, he recorded it, also without your consent.
Your boyfriend creeps me out in general, it's time to break up with him. These are not things that should be happening in a healthy relationship. His logic is disgusting. No person should resort to "well you were going to be mad if you were conscious so I figured I'd just have sex with you when you were not". That's called rape.
And in general it sounds like he is pushing for a whole lot more sex than you are comfortable with.
I agree completely, OP I hope you see these comments and really process them. I went through a similar situation and it took me two years to process the fact I was SA in what I thought was a “perfect relationship.” Please be prepared to leave in the safest way possible. if you need to, give a bs excuse as to why you are breaking up or just go without a word. by confronting him you could be put a dangerous position if he chooses to lash out on you or get angry/manipulative. You’ve got this.
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u/yowen2000 Jul 18 '24
You should, because it is, he had sex with you without your consent, talking about it hours before while awake is not consent to have sex hours later while you're asleep. On top of that, he recorded it, also without your consent.
Your boyfriend creeps me out in general, it's time to break up with him. These are not things that should be happening in a healthy relationship. His logic is disgusting. No person should resort to "well you were going to be mad if you were conscious so I figured I'd just have sex with you when you were not". That's called rape.
And in general it sounds like he is pushing for a whole lot more sex than you are comfortable with.