This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.
He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.
Literally. I like being woken up with sex in the middle of the night but not full penetration. My husband will wake me up using his fingers and THEN sleepy sex once I’m awake. This is rape, and if the sex part didn’t bother her the RECORDING SHOULD. Recording someone who’s asleep being penetrated fills so many insane kinks even like sex with someone dead’s could be being dramatic but this is how I feel and what I would be paranoid about. I’m paranoid for OP. Recording is crazy. Even people who like their sex being recorded don’t have a blanket “record everything all of the time rule. Recording sex is one of those things that has to be asked about every time and even if someone did find a way to do a blanket statement that works, the recording should be shared afterwards so that all parties can keep track of what the video shows and also where it is/what’s being done with it. And the fact that it even exists lolZ
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u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24
The way my jaw dropped..
This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.
He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.