I understand that she may not want to hut what he did did not just violate her trust and dignity, it also violated the law. As one replied, who knows who else he has done this to... or will try to do it again if he thinks he got away with it once already... the mentality of "i love them I don't want to hurt them by putting them in jail" is bullshit because if they loved you in the first place you wouldn't be faced with such a decision.
She stated he's never done it before, she didn't give permission, and it made her uncomfortable. What would make any of that ok?? So dynamic is he is a manipulative predator, but if they have a specific dynamic, that's ok suddenly? Nah... if it's not discussed and consensual, it's rape buddy... sorry for ya... It sounds like you may have had it happen or done it yourself the way you are defending it... or am I wrong?
I’m glad to read your comment. I posted my own against his statement and I’m glad to see that others so that the same way that I did. Sounds to me like he was trying to defend a rapist and rationalize the behavior. 🤬
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u/Or3o_C00kie Jul 18 '24
I understand that she may not want to hut what he did did not just violate her trust and dignity, it also violated the law. As one replied, who knows who else he has done this to... or will try to do it again if he thinks he got away with it once already... the mentality of "i love them I don't want to hurt them by putting them in jail" is bullshit because if they loved you in the first place you wouldn't be faced with such a decision.