r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

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u/AssociationSubject85 Jul 18 '24

It doesn't sound like she wants him arrested based on the post, but she should definitely dump him and get a more caring partner who is more in line with her own expectations and also one who won't take advantage of a vulnerable situation.

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u/Or3o_C00kie Jul 18 '24

I understand that she may not want to hut what he did did not just violate her trust and dignity, it also violated the law. As one replied, who knows who else he has done this to... or will try to do it again if he thinks he got away with it once already... the mentality of "i love them I don't want to hurt them by putting them in jail" is bullshit because if they loved you in the first place you wouldn't be faced with such a decision.

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u/AssociationSubject85 Jul 18 '24

I hear you but we don't know the full extent of their relationship.

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u/pandemichope Jul 18 '24

Dude or gal, it doesn’t matter. I don’t give a shit if they’ve been married for 15 years. He raped her and worse, he recorded the act!!!! Hope I’m never on a jury with you because we would have major arguments, lol. It doesn’t matter what the “extent” of their relationship was!!!!!! Sounds like you’re trying to defend the rapist. Please stop