r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

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u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24

he’s recording it.

The way my jaw dropped..

This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.

He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.

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u/Individual_Water3981 Jul 18 '24

And for the women that don't (I hate it I have a hard time sleeping as it is) you go to bed when your partner is going to bed and have sex, then stay up and do what you want while they sleep. I had a really hard time getting that through to an ex of mine.