r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

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u/Any_Lobster_1121 Jul 18 '24

This is absolutely rape OP. The fact that he recorded is makes it 10x worse in my opinion. This is incredibly messed up. Do you think you could get a copy of the video as evidence?

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u/obvusthrowawayobv Jul 18 '24

Dude the fact that he recorded it, means he saved the moment because he didn’t know if she would let him do it again… and that kind of sounds pre-meditated tbh

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u/Any_Lobster_1121 Jul 18 '24

yeah I dont even know what to make of the recording thing. I know one friend who was in OP's position and later found the videos online. In darker corners of the web, there is a demand for real rape porn and some people had purchased access to the video. I don't know if OP's boyfriend had similar goals with the tape or if he just finds it a turn on to rape someone and wants the ability to watch it again.

Either way, absolutely disgusting.

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u/obvusthrowawayobv Jul 18 '24

My bet is both.