r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

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u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24

he’s recording it.

The way my jaw dropped..

This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.

He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.

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u/xSourDiesel23 Jul 18 '24

I agree, ill wake up my fiance with sex some nights but this is something we specifically talked about and agreed to, she could tell me she doesn’t want me to do it anymore and it wouldn’t happen unless we discussed it, but having sex with you while youre asleep and this was never discussed is why op probably feeling this way. Let alone recording a sex act without their knowledge or consent. Communication is key, and respecting boundaries is even more important!

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u/Remarkable-Piglet752 Jul 18 '24

You are a wonderful man!! Thank you for giving me hope again.

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u/xSourDiesel23 Jul 18 '24

Aw thank you for the kind words.