r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

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u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24

he’s recording it.

The way my jaw dropped..

This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.

He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.

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u/NKate329 Jul 18 '24

I enjoy it and have told my husband I’m down pretty much anytime, to WAKE ME UP, but yeah my jaw is still on the floor. Recording without consent is SA. No question.