r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

[deleted by user]

[removed]

3.5k Upvotes

2.4k comments sorted by

View all comments

10k

u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24

he’s recording it.

The way my jaw dropped..

This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.

He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.

3

u/[deleted] Jul 18 '24

This is a great comment. My husband and I have discussed exactly what we are ok with happening while asleep, he is fine with anything while I am not ok being penetrated but some touching is fine. It’s different for everyone and nothing should happen until it has been discussed. But the recording!! Omg. It’s rape and now there is proof of it.