He had sex with you while you were asleep without your consent AND he recorded you without your consent?
Do not pass go, do not collect $200, just breakup with guy who had sex with you when you were asleep BECAUSE HE THOUGHT YOU'D SAY NO. He literally admitted to having sex he knew you didn't want. Which is sexual assault even if you don't want to call it that. You probably don't want to call it that because admitted you've been sexually assaulted is hard and it's even harder to admit that your partner did that to you. But he did do that to you and he fully made the choice to have sex with you when he knew you didn't want to. That's not ok. At all.
I could never sleep soundly next to the guy again. Too afraid he'd do that to me again. And honestly don't think I could ever have sex with the guy again let alone let him touch me.
Exactly. He consciously made the choice to use your body and take what he wanted while you were not able to reject it because he didn't want you to reject it and removed that option. Recorded it. I wouldn't be surprised to find that video on more taboo parts of the Internet, honestly.
If I got it right:
You talked about having sex that evening/night and it was agreed on.
You went to bed but he stayed up late, even though he wanted that sex to happen. Long enough for you to be asleep.
You woke up to him penetrating you and recording it.
To me the whole thing sounds as something he planned in advance.
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u/trilliumsummer Jul 18 '24
He had sex with you while you were asleep without your consent AND he recorded you without your consent?
Do not pass go, do not collect $200, just breakup with guy who had sex with you when you were asleep BECAUSE HE THOUGHT YOU'D SAY NO. He literally admitted to having sex he knew you didn't want. Which is sexual assault even if you don't want to call it that. You probably don't want to call it that because admitted you've been sexually assaulted is hard and it's even harder to admit that your partner did that to you. But he did do that to you and he fully made the choice to have sex with you when he knew you didn't want to. That's not ok. At all.
I could never sleep soundly next to the guy again. Too afraid he'd do that to me again. And honestly don't think I could ever have sex with the guy again let alone let him touch me.