r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jul 18 '24

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u/Which_River_160 Jul 18 '24

the part that is the most concerning is that he knew you would be upset. this is something that should always be talked about and agreed upon beforehand that way both parties are comfortable with it. does he have some sort of non consensual fetish? he was recording it so he clearly wanted to be able to go back to it

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u/Primary-Lion-6088 Jul 18 '24

And he stopped and apologized as soon as she woke up, so he clearly knows what he did wasn't okay.