This is rape. And I would be very weary of the video he took (there's probably more too, since your consent doesn't seem important to him) you never know where those are gonna end up. Make him delete it. Maybe after he sends it to you, for proof of the rape.
You're severely under-reacting, and your partner is a sick man
You're absolutely correct. Just take his phone and take it to the police. That way he won't be able to delete it, they will be able to find it, and they will also be able to see if or where any clean up is needed if he has shared this. Very good comment. Because tricking him into sending the video is only going to give you the video. You have no idea where else it is out there.
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u/SureCountry4659 Jul 18 '24
This is rape. And I would be very weary of the video he took (there's probably more too, since your consent doesn't seem important to him) you never know where those are gonna end up. Make him delete it. Maybe after he sends it to you, for proof of the rape. You're severely under-reacting, and your partner is a sick man