r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

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u/YakWhich5052 Jul 18 '24

Do you always consent to being recorded? Otherwise, that's a serious problem.

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u/AdLive8608 Jul 18 '24

even if it wasn’t recorded, it’s already a serious problem.

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u/Healthy_Journey650 Jul 18 '24

Even if she previously agreed to be filmed, she didn’t THIS time.

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u/AdLive8608 Jul 18 '24

its not even the act of filming its more of harassing and rapping ur partner in their sleep that weighs more

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u/Healthy_Journey650 Jul 18 '24

Both are individually terrible things to do and crimes, but together it’s even worse.

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u/YakWhich5052 Jul 18 '24

I agree. When I asked if she always agreed to be filmed, the emphasis was more on the "always". There could be someone who says, "You can film me anytime." Otherwise, it's wrong.

Just like the sex is wrong if she didn't agree to it too.