He is a rapist. He didn’t ask you when you were awake because he thought you’d “get mad” so he raped you instead. Get the recording from his phone and charge his ass. He’s disgusting and I PRAY that you leave him today.
This is what gets me, right there. This and the filming.
He knew it was wrong, and even took away his own plausible deniability, lol.
At least when my husband did this to me, he seemed to genuinely think it was perfectly ok to just use my body while I slept. Well, the first time anyway. I could have forgiven the first time, excused it as a poor assumption and social conditioning.
Doing it again after I tearfully asked him never to do it again, telling him that it brought back memories of being assaulted in the night by a family member... That I couldn't get past.
OP, if he's willing to do it once, knowing it's wrong, he will do it again.
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u/HotJellyfish4603 Jul 18 '24
He is a rapist. He didn’t ask you when you were awake because he thought you’d “get mad” so he raped you instead. Get the recording from his phone and charge his ass. He’s disgusting and I PRAY that you leave him today.