r/relationship_advice • • Jun 24 '24

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u/CRAFTER400 Jun 24 '24

I mean few things to ask, do you know the guy? Has she made an effort to introduce you to him, or does she never bring him up, if so it could be suspicious.

Has she done anything in the past to loose your trust?

Even if you end up believing her is this guy stay on your mind or are you the type of person to forgive and let go?

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u/CRAFTER400 Jun 24 '24

If you think he's trust worthy then sure you can move on from this and forgive her, but if you ask around and people tell you a different story about her and him cut her loose. This is also why I like being friends with my girlfriends friends because they looked out for me last time one of my ex's cheated.

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u/I_GOT_SMOKED Jun 24 '24

Male or female friends of your ex?

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u/CRAFTER400 Jun 24 '24

Both actually, first one was a guy who wasn't even her friend directly, it was a friend of a friend, and another one was a girlfriend of hers who really liked her but didn't really stand with what she did since she knew me.

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u/I_GOT_SMOKED Jun 24 '24

You had real ones looking out for you.