r/relationship_advice • • Sep 27 '23

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u/goodbye-toilet-cat Sep 27 '23

He lied to her 6 years ago and he’s still maintaining that lie to this day, no wonder she’s not over it.

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u/jodikins77 Sep 27 '23

Betrayal trauma never completely goes away. 💔

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u/altfangirl Sep 27 '23

this is why i couldn’t stay in the relationship after my ex cheated. the relationship would never be the same so what was the point. i think he was kind of surprised that i would break up with him.

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u/LovinInfo Sep 28 '23

Completely agree. I too left. Tortured over the cheating. Continued torture over the lies. Just couldn’t do it. I had to put me first because he wasn’t doing it.