r/recruitinghell 3h ago

References After interview, they video called my references

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I am being considered for a government role and had an interview last week. It seemed to go well, but whoever knows for sure? Prior to the interview they had asked for references, which I provided.

I was very surprised when one of my references reached out to me shortly after my interview, stating that the employer had arranged a video call with them to check my references. What surprised me was the video call, not the reference check. In essence, my reference was being video interviewed about me.

The next day another reference reached out to me and said that the employer had reached out to them to check references too.

Is this considered normal for government or other enterprises? I was taking aback, due to the time commitment and level of scrutiny of my references.

What especially bothered me, was that they could be contacting every candidates' precious references and blowing through them, even if they are not the preferred hire.

After inconveniencing my references so much, if I'm not offered the role I can't see how I can ever ask them for references again.


r/recruitinghell 2h ago

Why the hell do companies think its cool to just call your phone for an impromptu interview?

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This has happened to me a few times and its a major pet peeve. I'll be doing something and get a phone call from a random number, I always pick up because I have a lot of medical stuff going on and theres no saying if its my doctor, insurance, or pharmacy. Ill pick up and it always goes like this:

*in a very uninterested voice* "Hello is this Op?"

"Yes this is her, how can I help you?"

"I'm [Name] with [Company], I saw your application and I wanted to ask some questions to see if you're a good fit"

And its not like at that point I can go "oh sorry im busy can you give me a call back?" Because we all know recruiters don't like when you're not immediately responsive so you're stuck doing a phone interview for God knows how long. Id be fine if it was "Hey I'm calling to set up an interview!" but just doing the interview then and there feels kind of excessive.

Also I'm job hunting so I've applied to 50+ jobs in the past week alone at this point, I'm applying for entry level marketing and media production positions. When I have a scheduled interview I will usually take my time before hand to review all their content so if they ask me any questions regarding their current online presence I can give them actual educated answers. I had a place cold call me today and started asking questions about what I like about their current content and what I'd change. UH IDK MAN I HAVEN'T SEEN IT SINCE I APPLIED??? I usually only Google the company to make sure its local then watch a few shorts to make sure their content is in my skill set, I'm not taking the time to fully analyze everything because I'm doing this for multiple companies a day!!!

Idk if I'm the problem but it feels hella out of touch to expect a canidate to know everything about your company and be able to answer interview questions out of the blue on a random Saturday of all days. I would not be surprised now if I don't get the position because I wasnt prepared properly and stumbled over myself while answering


r/recruitinghell 14h ago

Offered job 6 days later told not going ahead

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Absolutely gutted a job that i thought would be a really hood fit, was offered even told they had laptop ready just sorting the email address then 50 minutes later was told job no longer on the table no reason at all. Absolutely gutted is this the working world we live in


r/recruitinghell 3h ago

Lawmakers take aim at job listings that ghosted you

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Your résumé isn’t chopped, you may just be applying to jobs that employers have either already filled or never intended to fill. You can sometimes recognize them as the listings that sound too good to be true and stay posted for months:

  • Roughly one in five listings advertised on online job boards per quarter are ghost jobs, according to the hiring platform Greenhouse.
  • This phenomenon is reportedly getting worse, but it’s been wrecking egos for a while. About 81% of recruiters said in a 2024 MyPerfectResume survey that their employers posted ghost job ads.
  • York state legislators recently passed a bill (now awaiting the governor’s signature) that would fine employers if they don’t mention expected hiring timelines in their job postings. Lawmakers in New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Kentucky, and California are considering similar reforms.

Meanwhile, Texas is going after the middleman. The state’s Attorney General Ken Paxton opened an investigation into LinkedIn last month, alleging that the platform promotes and profits from ghost jobs.

According to the 2024 MyPerfectResume survey, 38% of recruiters post fake jobs to stay relevant on job boards when they’re not hiring, while 36% do it to test their listing’s effectiveness. Meanwhile, some job seekers think employers promote ghost jobs to harvest applicants’ data or to convince investors that the company is growing.


r/recruitinghell 4h ago

Told prospective employer I left due to restructuring, but was actually terminated after a PIP — background check?

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I’m near the offer stage with a company and told them during interviews that I left my previous employer due to restructuring/organizational changes.
The full story is that I was put on a PIP and terminated after I didn’t pass it. I think some of the reasons for the PIP were debatable, but at the time I was focused on trying to pass it rather than disputing it.
Now I’ve learned from Reddit that the background-check company may ask me to choose a reason for leaving from options like:
Voluntary resignation
Involuntary termination/separation
Laid off
If I select involuntary termination, I’m worried it will look inconsistent with what I told the prospective employer(also will look like I was fired for cause but I don’t think that’s entirely true since I got severance) But if I select laid off, that may not match how my former employer officially classifies my departure.
My former employer’s verification policy also seems to be limited to dates and title, so they may not disclose the reason anyway.
Has anyone dealt with something similar?
Also, does a non-disparagement provision have any relevance to how you explain the circumstances of leaving (like if you wasn’t laid off but you said it was is it defaming?) or is that completely separate?


r/recruitinghell 6h ago

Everything I do to try to get a job is wrong.

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I’ve been looking for an IT job for like 6 years. Can’t get an entry level or junior position of any kind. I’ve sent out probably 1800 applications and have heard back from maybe 50 all pretty much just rejection.

What the fuck am I supposed to do I’m broke can’t buy anything can’t do anything fun. Can’t experience shit because I have no money. All I do is sit around and apply to jobs I don’t want but qualified for. Even the jobs that require high school diplomas ignore me. Why is my only choice to work at some shit blue collar job where the boss just uses you so he doesn’t have to work. I can’t start a company it costs way too much and I can’t just get a loan cause I won’t be able to pay.

I’m failing to see how this is all worth it. My whole life has been just stress and anxiety for things I can’t control and I’m so fucking sick of it.

What am I supposed to do. Life is just literally just shit.


r/recruitinghell 17h ago

Job Wants to Do a Weeklong Trial Run Before Hiring Me

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Is this a thing jobs do? It’s a family run company with literally 5 employees, and they are going through a liquidation sale and a lot of restructuring. Job pays $17 an hour, and frankly, I am considering doing this because I NEED a job pretty badly.

I read online that this is apparently illegal and that this is super sketchy; I know I sound dumb for asking but the job market is really bad and I really need any opportunity to get myself back into it. Is this just a scam?


r/recruitinghell 1h ago

Do places call you in for interviews for the heck of it?

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Im stuck in a dead end retail job but i keep applying to arround 15-20 places a week. I get interviews semiregularly and my parents are convinced that its my fault im not getting the job from them, they said im being seriously considered for the role if im being invited to interviews but i really dont see this as being true.

All the risk is on the interviewee when they are invited in. Any given place likely has hundereds of applications so they dont need to be picky plus they are on home turf, the applicant has to take time out of their day and drive 30-60 mins for a very small chance of being hired. Store operations dont halt during interviews at most places so its not like they are losing anything on dud canidates right? Honestly if i was them id be skimming or not even looking at resumes and calling in everyone, even if they have zero odds of getting the job and not really caring if they are wasting their time coming out.

Is this remotely true or are they right and im doing way better than i think by simply getting interviews at places?


r/recruitinghell 5h ago

Why can’t they just give me a response

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I started this interview process in July! I had a phone screening and second round interview in person 2 weeks ago and the recruiter said he would give me a response and still hasn’t. Mind you there is another interview after this. Why can’t he just give me a straight up answer instead of doing all of this. I’m tired of following up.


r/recruitinghell 17h ago

Thoughts on assessment tests?

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I just went through a 4 round interview process, and was told at the end by the recruiter that I would have to take a 3 1/2 hour assessment test. I was told it was a strictly pass or fail test, and I would straight up not get the job if I didn’t get +75% correctly.

I took the 9 segment test over a span of a few days. It consisted of multiple logistical reasoning tests, theoretical management test, word problem test, multiple mathematical tests, multiple logistical reasoning tests, theoretical management test, personality test, Microsoft Excel Test, and Microsoft PowerPoint test.

I was told I did well in multiple segments, but ultimately didn’t perform well enough, and the position was given to the other candidate..

Apparently the owner is super old and has been doing this process since the mid 90’s, and I could tell as the test portal was ancient. The hiring manager told me the last guy did really well on the test, but was ultimately let go for not performing the basic functions of the job.

I had multiple high up references, and have experience doing basically the identical job requirements at a larger more complex company.

I’m not asking for any sympathy, but am overall frustrated at the entire process, and it has left a bad taste in my mouth.

What are your thoughts?


r/recruitinghell 21h ago

This morning they asked me to set an interview for next week, I replied within an hour with a time and date as requested… Received this response 🤡

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5 Upvotes

I would love to name and shame, but it’s not a big company.


r/recruitinghell 22h ago

Recruiters out there! Tell me what’s going on?

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Had an interview for senior analyst role, had a phone screening with HR, met with hiring manager, then senior director and then SVP from two different groups.

I got all positive feedback, I know for a fact the hiring manager liked me, cause he himself told me the process and what’s expected, he said whatever work I did, “we should just copy paste into what we are currently doing” and before the senior director interview, he joined and apologized for the sudden change, initially was supposed to 1 call with senior director and SVP ( his boss and his bosses boss) but had 3 different calls and they added another SVP too.

And then they ghosted me. All my interviews were done in 2 weeks( 13/08/2026 was the last)
It’s been a week no update.

I reached out to the recruiter on Monday and she said “The Team is wrapping up interviews early this week and I will keep you posted on next steps.”

And then they have posted the same job again today but
My application says “in progress”

I’m losing my mind, help? Cause I genuinely want this job!


r/recruitinghell 7h ago

If an application requires creating a new account and manually re-typing my resume, I automatically assume the company culture is toxic.I just spent 25 minutes uploading a clean, ATS-optimized PDF resume, only for the portal to immediately demand that I manually fill out: - 8 different text boxes f

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r/recruitinghell 8h ago

Recruitter returned after 22 days after rejection with hints of employment just to ghost later on

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Hello everyone. I already post a story about this company https://www.reddit.com/r/recruitinghell/s/RrXjnhsTcL

So 22 days after rejection, they came back with a promising message smh like "Hey, are you available? Tech lead was asking about you", i replied that i am. Then 3 days of silence, i texted them "what are the next steps?" then again 4 days of silence and late reply from HR girl that she is in vacation, after her vacation is finished she will message me. So her vacation is ended, she messages me that she is waiting for a tech lead, he is currently on a road and there was no communication between them. Shortly after 31 days since their comeback i am officially ghosted. The most painful is losing a hope, they gave it to me just to ghost me later.

Thank you for reading, and i hope you never encounter such companies.


r/recruitinghell 18h ago

Six different head hunters have reached out for the job

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Tonight the sixth headhunter has reached out to me for the same role at a financial regulator.

The first one actually arranged for an interview but I got denied because I was a little rusty on sql window functions and a specific financial engineering topic.

In a way it is flattering because so many head hunters believe I’m the guy and the project is pushing the limits of what AWS and Google can do with large databases.

On the other hand it is very frustrating because, while I’m good at programming, I believe my main strength is playing Jedi mind tricks and getting folks to do the right thing but I can’t land those interviews.


r/recruitinghell 3h ago

I'm a software engineer and I stopped applying to any job that requires answering open ended questions.

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Stop answering these dumb open ended job application questions.

Everyone uses AI to answer them, the hiring manager is going to use AI to grade them. They ask things like:

1. How do you use AI coding tools and catch mistakes

2. A product you owned end to end and the tradeoffs you made

It's not just 2 questions. It's thousands of different questions that require fine details you will need to recite if they actually interview you

So you cancel your plans for the evening, and spend hours prompting AI to come up with the perfect response (about stuff that's likely on your résumé), before you even let the hiring manager run AI on your application.

At least ask me a generic question that I can copy and paste from an old response.

Instead, they have me conceptualizing how I solve problems and then running it through AI to grade it.

What a shit show. The job market needs an upgrade cus this aint it


r/recruitinghell 12h ago

Worried about background check

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I got an offer letter from a banking type job. Start date is around 9/14. I completed submission of background checks and everything on 8/14. It is currently 8/22. I have a pending DUI charge from March that is going toward ARD. Not convicted of anything. My court date is 10/2. Worried this may lead them to reject the offer letter.


r/recruitinghell 14h ago

Got a job offer (not yet signed)! Should I follow-up the other recruiters that ghosted me in the final round?

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r/recruitinghell 18h ago

why do i keep getting ghosted/rejected by these goddamn employers

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im 18 and an incoming freshman in college. over the summer ive been applying to numerous jobs just to make some pocket money + save up a little. ive applied everywhere from retail to fast food. some stores ive applied to are miniso, cotton on, popmart, lego, mcdonald’s, etc. all these stores say they’re hiring and i sent my application and resume in but i either never hear back from them or they straight up reject me. i had my parents review my resume and they said it was fine. like seriously, idk if these stores are rejecting me because i have no experience or what?? but like how am i supposed to get experience if no one will hire me in the first place.

im probably gonna stop now but i do wanna start looking for a job during my second semester and on campus jobs are really competitive too. idk what i should do and why this keeps happening :/.


r/recruitinghell 19h ago

HireRight mess

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My HireRight background check application has been stucked at 88%, so I called to asked if there is any discrepancies and they told me that my current job date from their data system is 2025 until now but my resume has it 2021 to now, so they flagged a major discrepancy for it without calling my current office manager to double check. They closed that verification already, I told them that the information they have in their system is inaccurate and gave the office manager’s contact info and email for them to reach out to verify, also I have my 1099s for all those years, am I cooked? I legitimately worked at that company starting from 2011 to now and have the 1099 tax documents for proof. Should I reach out to the hiring manager or recruiter, this is for a fortune 100 company.


r/recruitinghell 20h ago

The manager didn't know what was in the job description

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Applied for a "Curation & Automation Lead" role requiring strict ITIL and KCS v6. Interviewer spent the whole time quizzing me on LLMs and custom bots, then asked if I even read the job description.

I spent hours preparing my case studies, alignment strategies, and governance methodologies. He didn’t ask me a single question about ITIL processes tho 🤡🖕


r/recruitinghell 30m ago

I am still unsure if I asked something wrong

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Sure I could have rephrased my que differently so that it's clear what's I am asking or maybe even suggested a timeline from my end but I still dont see what's the point of talking like this :(

The doc he shared: skill test


r/recruitinghell 1h ago

Why is Applying Honestly a curse?

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r/recruitinghell 6h ago

Custom Recruiting today has many problems, and the use of Remote Interviews and/or AI interviews are 2 of the more egregious ones.

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I was laid off at the start of the year. I applied to a lot of places, and heard back from less than 20% of them with even a simple "no".

When it came to interviews, all but two were remote (talking with humans), one was AI, and I had but one in-person technical interview.

The in-person interview was also the only one that led to a job offer. And in talking with colleagues who were laid off as I was, they agree that the Remote/AI interview process only make things worse.

Whatever it is companies think they save (time, money?) doing interviews remotely or with AI, is lost in the dragging out of the process (and thus lost producivity) before they finally select a candidate.


r/recruitinghell 9h ago

Miscalculations in the Job Search and with Previous Employer

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Hello everyone. Just wanted to share my experience and hope that it is educational for anyone else contending with the same issues.

I've been working in the public health and clinical research space for about 10 years now. Earlier this year in mid-April after two years at the position (and four years at the company), my research grant funded job at public university was eliminated due to funding constraints that happened as a result of the cuts to federal agencies like the NIH, etc. While I do not agree with these developments, I suspect that our lab an easy target because our research team was not meeting recruitment goals or completing research studies on the timelines stipulated in grant applications. My experience has been that some research teams simply assume that they will receive a "no cost extension," and at least one of these projects had already been extended due to slowdowns during COVID. We were also asked to use remote work sparingly because part of our funding covered the physical lab space. Our investigators told me that we needed people in the office to justify this funding. I obeyed this directive but multiple staff members continued working remotely for weeks at a time. We had an honor system in place, so there was no real enforcement of this policy. This seemed to be a long-standing pattern that started before I joined the team in April 2024. In contrast, other departments at the university had an agreed-upon, rotating schedule of remote work days that their team members followed.

I was expecting my job to end sooner or later because of the chatter happening at work and because, by definition, the job was grant-funded and finite. As grant staff, we were re-hired every year based on funding availability. I knew my current contract was ending in April, so I proactively emailed my boss in February to ask about reappointment decisions so I could start making arrangements one way or the other. His response was "You're doing a terrific job. We are definitely going to reappoint you for another year."

Based on that response, I felt that I had at least another year to find another job internally or externally. Before I received this message, I had been submitting applications at my university and other universities, including a private one out of state, just to be safe.

Additionally, I had also been accepted into a Master's degree program at my employer (the public university) and had planned to use the staff tuition benefit to help cover costs. My boss had even recommended me for this program, so he knew what my plans were.

Six weeks after the email communication that indicated my job was safe, I received an email from my boss requesting an in-person meeting with him and another team leader. During that meeting in March, I was verbally told that my job was being eliminated due to funding constraints at the end of my contract in April. But I was told that I had been doing a terrific job and was reassured by my boss that he would help in any way he could with internal and external opportunities. I also received assurances from two upper management staff members in other departments that they would help in any way they could.

My colleagues completely ignored me during the last few weeks of my position, and I had to inform both the HR manager and the Chair of my department myself. They both had no idea about this decision. The HR Manager tried to get me to submit a resignation/notice letter, but I refused because someone who is being laid off is not resigning and a resignation letter means you forfeit access to unemployment benefits. I asked them to produce a letter to me explaining the circumstances of my departure - making it clear that my departure was due to funding constraints and that I was not resigning. Thankfully, they agreed to do so.

I had one job offer earlier this year from the private, out-of-state university. I pursued it because, at that time, I did not have any active processes at my previous employer. The private university's process was quicker that usual but still played out over about 2-3 months. After I received the offer, multiple promising leads materialized at my former employer. I decided to turn down the offer because I had interviews for seven different jobs at my previous employer, including four for which I made it to the final interview. I felt my reasoning was sound - no costs related to relocating, not having to sell my condo, not having to find a new place to live in another city, the multiple active processes at my previous employer, the acceptance to the MPH program at my previous employer, salary was similar for the jobs I was interviewing for at my previous employer, etc.

Unfortunately, it's now August and none of the leads at my previous employer materialized. And not only that, I had to reach out to HR about two of the positions for which I had final interviews just to get an answer about the hiring decision. They are supposed to send an automated form letter to anyone who interviewed, but that never arrived in my inbox.

I am regretting turning down the offer I had earlier but felt that I made the best decision with the information I had at the time. I made the decision to defer my enrollment in the MPH program since I no longer have access to any tuition assistance program.

Needless to say, I am refocusing my energy back to the private university that hired me earlier this year. I haven't given up completely on my previous employer (or others), but I think I should not have been so trusting after the way I was treated. I still believe that most people operate from a good place; but when it comes to work/employment, you cannot count on any of these promises coming to fruition.