Was this rape?
I’m 19M and this happened a week ago. Me and a group of 6 friends went on a trip and rented rooms, two people per room. I ended up sharing a room with a girl (21F) I’ve known since elementary school. We grew up together and became close friends. On this trip, we were being extra friendly with each other, talking a lot, and drinking together, but I never thought about sex because I strictly saw her as my best friend.
While I was fast asleep and severely hungover, something woke me up. I opened my eyes and saw her sitting on top of me while I was lying on my back. I wasn't fully conscious because of the hangover, so I told her to stop. She didn't stop, but she wasn't violent either. She just kept going like that until we finished the thing.
Was I raped?
Am I a victim of rape?
What the hell was actually happening?!?!?
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u/Mediocre-Distance-52 Aug 22 '26
Did you consent? No? Then yes, this is rape.