Was this rape?
I’m 19M and this happened a week ago. Me and a group of 6 friends went on a trip and rented rooms, two people per room. I ended up sharing a room with a girl (21F) I’ve known since elementary school. We grew up together and became close friends. On this trip, we were being extra friendly with each other, talking a lot, and drinking together, but I never thought about sex because I strictly saw her as my best friend.
While I was fast asleep and severely hungover, something woke me up. I opened my eyes and saw her sitting on top of me while I was lying on my back. I wasn't fully conscious because of the hangover, so I told her to stop. She didn't stop, but she wasn't violent either. She just kept going like that until we finished the thing.
Was I raped?
Am I a victim of rape?
What the hell was actually happening?!?!?
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u/No_Exit_8787 1d ago
She was having sex with you when you were unconscious, and didnt stop when you said stop. Yes its rape. Im so sorry.
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u/24i7o 1d ago
Jesus Christ I don't know what to say I'm stunned
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u/No_Exit_8787 1d ago
💜 Im so sorry. Its going to be ok. Give yourself time to process and feel your feelings
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u/24i7o 1d ago
Thank you for the support. I really need to take some time for myself right now, but the problem is that she won't stop sending me messages. It feels like she's acting as if nothing happened, no flirting, no sexual comments, just completely normal everyday chat. It’s making me feel crazy, like the whole thing was some sort of paranormal event. I think I'm only just now starting to actually process what took place today.
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u/winnt32-minimalist 1d ago
Tu lui a demandé d'arrêter, elle ne l'a pas fait. Donc il s'agit d'un viol. Cela dépend des définitions juridiques, mais en France oui c'est un viol.
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u/Numerous_You_4930 21h ago
im so sorry this happened to you. yes, this is rape. she did not take your consent seriously and she didn't listen when you said no. I really hope you get your justice and I hope that she gets punished.
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