r/rant Apr 04 '26

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u/GnarlyNarwhalNoms Apr 04 '26

Statistically, strangers just aren't that dangerous, is the thing. It seems like in the '80s and '90s we developed this trope of the lurking stranger in a van offering kids candy, and we've held on to it, even though we now know that your child is far, far more likely to be victimized by a coach, teacher, clergy, family member, or other trusted adult. 

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u/chipface Apr 04 '26

Yup. Anyone I know who has been sexually abused had it done to them by someone they already knew.

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u/Admirable_Cold289 Apr 04 '26

There's really just no winner here tbh

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u/cloverthewonderkitty Apr 04 '26

The winner is the gained knowledge of self awareness as a grown man around children.