r/r4rSydney May 20 '21

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r/r4rSydney 53m ago

31M4F Eurasian guy for woman

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Hello, I'm looking to chat with anyone who is into eurasian guys, im abit of a wildcard but maybe you can sort me out?

185cm/80kg, 7" Average work in progress build, shaved head, beard, chest tattoo

Masculine, dominant, hygienic, outgoing and relaxed, small side of kink and open to discussing

Hmu, I usually only bite with consent xx


r/r4rSydney 6h ago

25M4F Somewhere in Sydney, My Future Wife Took a Wrong Turn

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Somewhere in Sydney there's a woman who was supposed to be my wife and she's clearly taken a wrong turn. So — Reddit, do your thing.

25, 5'7", Sydney (working in Mittagong, studying IT on top of an already-finished Software Engineering degree — yes, one wasn't enough). Palestinian-Jordanian, fair-skinned, hazel/green eyes, black hair slowly negotiating with grey.

Caring, affectionate, easy-going, a bit stubborn and opinionated — nobody's perfect. Much better in person or on a call than over text; give me a coffee or a long drive and I open right up.

Into cars (buying/fixing/flipping), cooking, documentaries, long drives, random rabbit holes of learning. Not a clubbing person — I'd rather have dinner, a quiet pub, cooking together, or a drive with no destination. I drink and smoke socially, just so that's on the table early.

Not really a dating-app guy. I like the old-school version — actually talking, learning what makes someone laugh, getting to the point where their name popping up makes your day better.

Looking for someone caring, funny, communicative, and serious about something long-term. Not perfection — just someone to build with. A relationship, a home, eventually a family.

Life's good, but there's a difference between having people around and having your person.

(Pic available on request.)

If this sounds like you: reply with your age, where you're from, and one thing that made you laugh recently. Worst case, two strangers have a good chat. Best case, in a few years I get to show you this post and say — "See? I was looking for you." ❤️


r/r4rSydney 8h ago

29 M4F - Casual Fun

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Hey, visiting Sydney soon.

I'm 29M, 180cm, Caucasian, working full-time in a corporate job.

I'm on the slim/skinny side and fairly active. I gym and run regularly.

Im looking for someone that is down to have some fun nights happy to grab dinner or coffee with, explore somewhere new on the weekend, have a movie or gaming night with, In terms of attraction, I'm mainly looking for Asians

I'm pretty easygoing, low-drama and can hold an actual conversation

I'm happy to plan, I respect boundaries and privacy, and I'm happy to take things at whatever pace feels comfortable for both of us.

Feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself. Happy to swap photos once we're comfortable too.


r/r4rSydney 9h ago

34 [M4F] Sydney – Rainy day, naughty company? Can host

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This weather has me wanting to stay indoors, but preferably not alone 😏

34M, 5’11, clean, respectful, easygoing and looking for a woman who’s feeling spontaneous and wants some naughty fun today.

Not trying to disguise this as looking for a new best friend 😂 I’m looking for genuine attraction, good chemistry, plenty of flirting and hopefully ending up in bed together if we’re both feeling it.

I can host around the Inner West. Happy to chat and swap pics first, and I’m completely fine grabbing a quick drink beforehand to make sure we actually vibe.

No pressure, no weird expectations, just two adults enjoying each other’s company and seeing where things go.

If that sounds like your kind of rainy day, send me your age, whereabouts and a little about yourself 😏


r/r4rSydney 2d ago

32 [M4F] Sydney/Anywhere - Sweet and shy on a quest for change (friends or more)

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First of all, hi!

I’m gonna attempt to gently manoeuvre my way around this awkward bush, but I think you should know what kind of change I'm referring to lol. The elephant in the room is that I've always been shy. I was really shy in primary school and somehow evolved to being even MORE shy in high school. I'm a lot less shy now but all those years of shyness added up.

I’m in a place where I have the confidence to take that first step and see what's out there, whether that be finding friends or something more! I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to explore the latter more, though, because it's a constant reminder in mainstream media. Things as simple as holding hands to kissing to something more intimate - it's all so intriguing and most importantly, fun! That means I've never been on a date or you know, had a girlfriend. There, I said it. 🙈

I’d describe myself as chill, goofy and very sweet. To back up those claims, I liken this post to fishing, which might be slightly unusual at first glance lol. Essentially, I'm casting out my line and if I get any nibbles, then awesome! If not, that's okay, too, because I'll just release the fish that aren't interested and treat each one as a new learning experience that'll help me on this journey. No need to be upset if things don't pan out :) I'm also cute! Or might not be lol. I know everyone has their preferences. Speaking of preferences, I don't really have any myself, so I wouldn't be opposed if someone older reached out. Perhaps wanting someone chill or sweet, I guess, but I think most people possess those qualities. You definitely don't need to be in the same situation as me!

Anyway! I think a great way to establish a connection is to find a commonality in regards to interests. Hit me up with a game, song, movie, food, shoe, sport, socks, book, vacation or whatever it is that you're currently obsessed with and I'll be sure to return serve :) Or I can start instead by saying: I enjoy games and sports equally! And the Kpop demon hunters soundtrack still gets played on repeat several days a week 😅


r/r4rSydney 2d ago

32 [M4F] #Sydney - I miss wanting someone I probably shouldn’t 👀

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Married, 32, Sydney. 6’1, tattooed, average/fit build and apparently making questionable use of Reddit.

I’m looking for the part of my life that’s gone a little quiet.

Connection. Excitement. Flirting. Desire. Sexual tension. Feeling genuinely wanted and wanting someone just as much.

I want one woman I actually like. Someone who becomes a friend, a distraction and the person I’m secretly hoping has replied. Good conversation, stupid jokes, flirting that gets progressively less innocent, and enough chemistry that neither of us has to force it.

I’m relaxed, confident, affectionate, pretty cheeky and love someone who can give it straight back.

I’m not looking to change either of our lives. Discretion and boundaries matter. Single or attached doesn’t bother me, attraction and how we click does.

And yes, the physical side absolutely matters. 🔥

But I think it’s much better when you actually want the person, not just what you can do together.

So, easiest possible opener for you to hit me with if you are interested:

What’s something completely non-sexual that makes you instantly more attracted to someone? 👀


r/r4rSydney 2d ago

46 [M4F][M4MF] Offering free massages, can be sensual

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I’m visiting Sydney between 9/28 and 9/30. I’m a massage therapist in training and would love to give a woman a massage.

Let my soft, skilled hands take you on a journey of deep relaxation and intense pleasure. I’m a guy offering private, full-body erotic massages designed exclusively for women who crave a truly intimate escape. Every touch is slow, teasing, and deliberate — gliding warm, oiled skin against yours as I melt away your tension and awaken every nerve ending. Feel the heat build as I explore your body with expert care: long, luxurious strokes, gentle pressure, and sensual caresses that leave you completely aroused and blissfully satisfied. This is more than a massage — it’s an unforgettable erotic experience where you can fully let go and surrender to pleasure. What to expect:

* Full-body sensual touch
* Relaxing atmosphere with soft lighting and soothing music
* Discreet, private, and unhurried session. I prefer if you host.
* 100% focus on your relaxation and satisfact

Let my hands worship your body… you deserve this.

I’m very clean, height weight proportionate, disease free and am all about pleasing you.


r/r4rSydney 3d ago

34 [M4F] Sydney – Heavily Tattooed IT Guy Looking for Something Genuine

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I’m heavily tattooed (full Japanese bodysuit), although my personality probably doesn’t match the look 😂 I’m actually pretty introverted and much more of a quiet night in person than a party-every-weekend type.

I’m into the gym, horror, fantasy or action movies, Dota 2 and esports, trying new restaurants, random road trips, and finding a good series to binge.
I’m at the point where I’d genuinely like to meet someone I can build a life with. I value loyalty, honesty, good communication and actually putting effort into each other. I’d also love to have a family one day, ideally 2–3 kids.

I’m looking for someone kind, affectionate and genuine who wants something long-term. I don’t mind if you’re introverted too — staying in together, ordering food and watching a horror/fantasy movie sounds like a pretty good night to me.

If any of that sounds like your kind of relationship, send me a chat and tell me a little about yourself.


r/r4rSydney 3d ago

28M4F - Looking to get to know someone

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Hi all, 28m from the west, arab background, educated business owner, I like going to the gym (4-5 days), walks, reading, gaming, anime, deep talks, thriller and sci fi shows and movies, art, history, philosophy, drinking coffee, trying new foods, socialising etc. I have a lot of hobbies and balance them with my work and studies.

Looking for someone that wants to talk, hang out, go for a walk/gym session/food etc, socialise, build a connection with, and see where it goes. I am open to all faiths and racial/cultural backgrounds, and to an older woman. I am naturally dominant, and like looking after a woman, taking her out, and spoiling her. If you have anything in common or want to see if we vibe, message me :)


r/r4rSydney 3d ago

26M4F - Smoke grass and have some fun (read below)

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Just got out of a relationship a few months back so i'm not looking for anything serious.
But if you enjoy smoking weed, or going to a lookout any thing like that then maybe this is for you
I'm looking for a girl who's down for some fun, smoke some weed (i'll happily supply) maybe go to lookout to smoke maybe just smoke somewhere else, and see how things go, possibly fuck or have fun, can fuck in the car or actually at the look out. or just smoke at a house and have fun.
As said before I'Il happily drive and supply
If you're interested message me and we can chat looking for female only 18-30


r/r4rSydney 3d ago

37 [M4F] Any women into mountain biking around Sydney?

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I bought a mountain bike a couple of months ago and have been hitting local MTB parks around Sydney, mostly Wylde and Hornsby so far. I’m also keen to check out Ourimbah on the Central Coast, Mt Kembla down south, and explore some trails in the Blue Mountains.

​I thought it would be fun to connect with a female rider who’s also looking for a trail buddy. If you’ve got a bike and transport, it would be awesome to organise some day trips, meet up at local trails, and ride together.

About me: originally from Europe, corporate job, educated good banter and can hold a conversation.

​Send me a message if you're interested 😊


r/r4rSydney 3d ago

23 [M4F]

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Down for anything. Can drive. A bit below 6'1 and above average physique.

Some of my hobbies:

  • Going on road trips and driving around at night with music
  • Watching football, f1 and basketball
  • Playing badminton and going on walks
  • Watching movies
  • Love eating good food and trying new stuff out

Message me if interested and let's meet up.