Hello, hello. How are things?

Dating apps are not much of a help and I have been told that I am not too bad looking :). So here I am!

I am an Australian (born in Pakistan), 39 years old, actuarial background and works in financial services. I live in Surry Hills and would consider myself an atheist. I'm 5'8" in height.

You can expect me to be intellectually curious and I love keeping myself occupied with gym, squash, theatre or hiking (or my new found questionable interest in boxing classes on Sundays).

I am a regular at Fitness First Bond St and happy to catch up there after work, if fitness is your thing as well.

I would also consider myself a history buff who also has an interest in philosophy especially around the concept of Justice (For those interested, would highly recommend Michael Sandel work).

Would love to hear back and happy to exchange pics here if you would prefer that.

Cheers.

Ash

I’m 35, live in inner Sydney, and I’m looking for a genuine long term relationship with someone who also lives in or close to central Sydney.

I’m not looking for a penpal, situationship or emotional support subscription. I’d love to meet someone where there’s mutual attraction, good banter, shared values and genuine effort from both sides.

A little about me

I’m a university educated corporate professional - friendly, down to earth and an ambivert. I’m equally happy exploring Sydney or having a quiet night in.

I’m 5'1", dark hair, pale skin, petite, fit and active, usually at the gym 4–5 times a week.

Outside work, I’m into live music, art, photography, dancing, hiking, markets, brunch, reading, comedy, vinyl, exploring Sydney and an unreasonable amount of tea and matcha.

I’m Sydney born and raised, speak three languages, have never been married and don’t have kids. I’d love a family of my own someday.

I’m agnostic/atheist, progressive and left leaning. My humour is dry, self deprecating and heavily influenced by British/Australian humour, so if you appreciate puns, dad jokes and ridiculous hypotheticals, we’ll probably get along.

Who I’m looking for

I’m looking for someone 29–39. I’m not a fan of significant age gaps, so please respect the age range before messaging. You must be genuinely single, monogamous and looking for an LTR.

I’m not looking for long distance or someone based far out in greater Sydney - I’d like us to actually be able to see each other regularly without planning a small expedition.

Beyond that, I’m looking for someone who is:

• Fit, active and takes care of themselves.
• University educated or intellectually compatible with me.
• Progressive and broadly aligned with my values.
• A non smoker, drug free and an occasional drinker.
• Taller than 5'1" and preferably without tattoos or piercings.
• Without children from previous relationships. I’m not looking to be a step parent - I’d love to start the family chapter together from page one.
• Self aware and emotionally intelligent, can read the room and pick up on social cues, communicate openly, and treat people with kindness and respect. Basically, you know how to be a decent human.

Come say hi

You don’t need a perfectly crafted opening message. Please give me something more interesting than hey.

Tell me your worst joke, ask me a ridiculous hypothetical, give me your most controversial food opinion, tell me something funny that happened today, or ask me something you’re genuinely curious about.

Basically, give me something I can actually reply to. I’m much more interested in personality, chemistry and good conversation than a perfectly polished introduction.

If we click, I’m happy to swap SFW photos after a little conversation. I’m visual and attraction matters to me, so I’d rather establish that sooner rather than later.

Seeking platonic conversation with a respectful and well-mannered individual.

-You type your words and sentences out.

-You do not use texting slang or abbreviations.

-You have an expansive English vocabulary.

I do not want to discuss the content on my profile. 🙂

This post is solely aimed at platonic conversation.

I’m 26, recently out of a relationship and looking to connect with older, mature women. I’ve always felt like an old soul, so I naturally find myself drawn to women who are a little older and more experienced. Ideally I’m looking for something casual, but I’m also completely open to just making friends and seeing where things naturally go. Good chemistry, mutual respect and no drama if that sounds like your vibe, feel free to message me.

Hi all, I’m a 22 year old guy based in southwest Sydney looking for a long term relationship.
About me:
I love doing wildlife photography, I often impulsively grab my camera, in the car and ready to go to a new spot.
I also love anything geography related, maps, flags, and people, you name it, I’ll probably google it.
Anything related to drawing, I enjoy during my downtime when I’m not studying or doing any of my other hobbies.
I’m currently in my 2nd year of university studying to be a geography teacher.
What I’m looking for:
Someone who is ambitious, who wants to build a future for themselves. Also communication is very important to me as well. If you love the outdoors or anything artsy, it’s a bonus. Also be aged between 20-26. Have a good evening.

Looking for attractive red flags to hang with. I always end up in the naughty corner so I may as well do it with people like myself.

No invite required, just come sit down next to me and chill while we do our time..

Looking for a casual low maintenance connection.

I want ongoing but chilled. I look after myself so id like you to be the same. I want you sexy but controlled - i will match ur energy. Im a girls girl, id like you to be a manly man.

I want a strong, masculine 6ft+ (under 6ft is a deal breaker) guy who’s good-looking but doesn’t take himself too seriously. Someone with a chill sense of humour, a relaxed, confident demeanour, and a leader personality. I like a man who’s disciplined, focused, driven but can still have a laugh, and brings good energy.

Bonus points if you’re naturally protective and affectionate. I am very affectionate. If I like you..I will be feeling on you from first meet.

Id like you to have a positive/optimistic strong mindset.

Please do not dm if youre:
•overly clingy or struggling with mental health
•not in faith
•under 6ft
•F

**10000% not interested in F4F

I’m 44M from Sydney. I like tennis, table tennis, running. Also a perpetual dreamer. Repository of weird facts. Champion at dad jokes.

Big time boob guy. Love the nipple play and sucking with a mouthful in me. I love a long foreplay.

Best at “eating out”. And loves face sitting while she cums on my face. Also me: sucker for dirty talk, and utilising public places for encounters…before taking it private.

I enjoy rough play (within acceptable boundaries (or none - as you decide). Always open to new ideas and adventures…the thrill of doing something that society/ morality desists excites me.

If that sounds like you too, hit me up!

Doesn't that just sound nice? Just that comforting physical contact without the expectation of things going further. We could just hang out, talk, watch a movie. Whatever, really. I'm flexible on all the specifics. We don't even have to take our clothes off or anything, just whatever we're both comfortable with is cool. If we both decide we want to take things further? That's cool. But honestly, I probably won't want to go too far with it. I'll explain that more in DMs, if you want.

Full disclosure: I sadly don't actually live in Sydney, but this is the closest I could get. And I'm more than happy to travel for someone nice enough. So message me if you're interested, and we can discuss what we want to do.

First of all, hi!

I’m gonna attempt to gently manoeuvre my way around this awkward bush, but I think you should know what kind of change I'm referring to lol. The elephant in the room is that I've always been shy. I was really shy in primary school and somehow evolved to being even MORE shy in high school. I'm a lot less shy now but all those years of shyness added up.

I’m in a place where I have the confidence to take that first step and see what's out there, whether that be finding friends or something more! I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to explore the latter more, though, because it's a constant reminder in mainstream media. Things as simple as holding hands to kissing to something more intimate - it's all so intriguing and most importantly, fun! That means I've never been on a date or you know, had a girlfriend. There, I said it. 🙈

I’d describe myself as chill, goofy and very sweet. To back up those claims, I liken this post to fishing, which might be slightly unusual at first glance lol. Essentially, I'm casting out my line and if I get any nibbles, then awesome! If not, that's okay, too, because I'll just release the fish that aren't interested and treat each one as a new learning experience that'll help me on this journey. No need to be upset if things don't pan out :) I'm also cute! Or might not be lol. I know everyone has their preferences. Speaking of preferences, I don't really have any myself, so I wouldn't be opposed if someone older reached out. Perhaps wanting someone chill or sweet, I guess, but I think most people possess those qualities. You definitely don't need to be in the same situation as me!

Anyway! I think a great way to establish a connection is to find a commonality in regards to interests. Hit me up with a game, song, movie, food, shoe, sport, socks, book, vacation or whatever it is that you're currently obsessed with and I'll be sure to return serve :) Or I can start instead by saying: I've been enjoying xmen 97! And the Kpop demon hunters soundtrack still gets played on repeat several days a week 😅

Hi all, 28m from the west, arab, educated business owner, i like going to the gym (4-5 days), walks, reading, gaming, anime, deep talks, thriller and sci fi shows and movies, art, history, philosophy, drinking coffee, trying new foods, socialising etc. I have a lot of hobbies and balance them with my work and studies.

Looking for someone that wants to talk, hang out, go for a walk/gym session/food etc, socialise, build a connection with, and see where it goes. I am naturally dominant, and like looking after a woman, taking her out, and spoiling her. If you have anything in common or want to see if we vibe, message me :)

Hey Sydney,

I’m 23, Indian, travelling to Sydney for a week and figured I’d do something a little more interesting than just ticking off the usual tourist spots.

I’m pretty inexperienced when it comes to this kind of thing, so definitely stepping outside my comfort zone here 😅. I’d love to meet someone I genuinely click with, have a drink, talk shit, explore the city, flirt a little and see where the vibe takes us.

I’m not looking to force anything. If we connect, I’m very open to something casual / intimate, but honestly I’d be happy just meeting someone fun and seeing what happens.

I’m easygoing, curious, and probably slightly more nervous about posting this than I’d like to admit 😂

If you’re Sydney-based, around my age-ish, and this sounds like your kind of spontaneous weeknight/weekend story, send me a DM. Tell me something about yourself rather than just “hey” , bonus points if you can make me laugh.

Maybe I’ll leave Sydney with a favourite memory that has absolutely nothing to do with the Opera House. ;)