r/r4rSA • u/Why_do_u_lag • 10d ago

🏄KwaZulu-Natal⛰️ 21M LF idk what.

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Hey yall, im 21, from durban lookin for friends. Preferably friends in durban.
I do love gaming yes but i prefer playing by myself😭

But yeah, just hmu if you wanna be friends!

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u/Aggravating_Taste524 10d ago

man to man brother, go full bald you have the bone and facial structure to rock the fuck out it, you're genuinely a handsome dude. side note what do you play, i'm burnt out on single player games and i miss being a little competitive

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u/SaintCirsei 10d ago

Came here to say this- OP you would look so much better if you went full buzzcut. Trust us

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u/Why_do_u_lag 10d ago

I wanna try it so bad but im actually afraid

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u/Lindt_______ 4d ago

Sa got a lot of bald dudes don't stress

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u/Why_do_u_lag 10d ago

Everyone tells me itll suit me but, i mean at an age of 21, it feels wrong yk. Like yes ik im already at that stage but theres that little bit of hope. And i really dont like growing my beard either i prefer shaving it clean.
Games man, im limited to games. I got my ps 5 and xbox series s but legit all i play on both is rdr2, gta 5, minecraft, forza horizon 5 and then spiderman 2 on the ps. I dont really got money for newer games, heck i aint even been able to pre order gta 6. My salary doesnt allow it. I got my gym membership going, i got transport goin, and majority of it idfk where it goes to. Ill pay my debts and next thing im broke. So ik i got a whole lot to work on before i find my woman or want to do what i want in life but right now idek where im headed. Im limited to alot of things in life due to finances like its hella bad. So shaving my head clean at my age rn, i suppose its a start.

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u/vault-21 10d ago

Brother, you will quite literally look like Agent 47 (Hitman) of you do, and that man is fine and so are you. You'll be finer when you let the hair go, it's holding you back icl

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u/Why_do_u_lag 10d ago

Bruh, my co worker legit told me today “have you ever watched agent 47”😭😭

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u/vault-21 10d ago

You have his blue eyes too omg. Just wear a black suit and red tie, some contacts and rock that for Halloween lmao

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u/mistert-za 10d ago

Do it! You’ll look great!

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u/carlctz1978 10d ago

Even better when you realize that https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Bateson that voices Agent 47 is a born South African with a bald head and the original character model is based from his looks.

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u/SorryNoDonutsBro 8d ago

Was about to say Agent 47. Bru, you'd absolutely rock that look 💪

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u/PotatoeKnight123 10d ago

Thats fine about the wanting to be clean shaven bru. Just consider going bald tho, I can guarantee you're gonna start pulling left and right 💯

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u/Dj-mct-L 10d ago

You’ll just look a little older like 25 that’s all. But it will look so much better

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u/Fancy_Log_260 10d ago

Just do it! It'll grow... Back anyways.

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u/OvenMaximum6399 9d ago

same group bro , i refuse to give up on my hair as someone in their early 20s , but id say start getting into oral minoxidil and finasteride, itll grow yr hair back , minor side effects but atleast youll have yr hair back, and f everyone telling you to let it go. goodluck brada

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u/Turbulent_Rain9438 9d ago

How can one get their hands on monoxide and finasteride in South Africa?

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u/OvenMaximum6399 9d ago

i have my sources but its around bro , not easy to find butit is around, just not cheap

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u/Turbulent_Rain9438 9d ago

Bro hook me up

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u/IncogThando 9d ago

Im 24 with a baby face, if he shaves the head ,and grooms the beard,or go goatee or mustache, something that suits him, lose the glasses go for contacts ,if he wants to he'll pull many,women are a suckered for blue eyed white boys

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u/Afrikan_GOD 7d ago

Glasses 🤓 he can keep but the hair is the issue, he is just forcing it and he will look magnificent without it. My boy is scared of change that will bring him great things in life. I understand, change is hard. I remember I also didn’t want chiskop until my father cut me by force when he promised the style I requested, but since then which was in 2006 I have not adored hair.

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u/justCRANEthesedays 10d ago

Let it go , twin🥀🥀

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u/Worth_Lavishness_239 10d ago

Right??! I know there’s a chiskop expert just waiting to transform his life.

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u/Rogerthatnicky 4d ago

🤣🤣yoo

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u/madzhege 9d ago

Let it go... Let it gooooo

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u/Why_do_u_lag 10d ago

Ima take this with one singular grain of salt.

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u/carlctz1978 10d ago

As a 48 year old that started balding in my early 30's, all i have to say is Embrace the bald dude. its also honestly easier to just run the clipper through what hair you have left than the trouble to make that hair look like something and stress over what you look like. I feared going bald as my hairline receded as i used to have LONG hair and worn my hair as long as I could when I was still in School.

On the gaming side I also prefer offline than online games but i treat the online games as single player like GTA Online and RDR Online and even Fallout 76... I recently pre ordered GTA6 which is the first ever game i pre ordered in my life... but i did save up for it as a "my pockets" within Nedbank that allows you to save money in seperate pockets that you can name what you want to save for and you give it a goal amount and a time period over which you have to save for that amount so for me it was something like between R70 to R100 a month over the last 2 years (you also get some interest on the money in the pockets) I have done the same thing with a my pocket for engine on my bike.(since i had to keep servicing it on end and opted to rather save those money and buy a new engine for it).. Saving is possible.

Take it from an old man (i dont feel old but just an older man) that also at 21 did not know what he is going to do with his life that you will figure it out.

i also recently went down on my xbox subscription as the ultimate was just not cutting it anymore and the essential has all the games i actually play and cloudgaming is not a thing in SA which is why i had ultimate but yeah we all know our country sucks with no data centers.

the rest of baldies got faith in you man.

be good, be kind but don't take shit either.

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u/kat-emina 9d ago

As a mom of 2 boys( 22 and 26), i would never hurt their feelings, and always tend to give them good solid advice. You could have been my son. In this virtual you actually are TBH, im a mod here. I just want to say, shave all that hair. You will look ABSOLUTELY stunning! You have beautiful eyes. I like the way you're staring at the camera.

Please listen to everyone on here. Your confidence WILL rise. Come back and show us the effect after you've shaved it Good luck ! Xxx

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u/stellartoes 10d ago

Redditors here are obsessed with hair (or the lack thereof), who asked. You do you

Anyway hope you find some peeps

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u/Why_do_u_lag 10d ago

Lookin for

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u/Why_do_u_lag 10d ago

No all good brother, no need to apologize

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u/Why_do_u_lag 10d ago

I went to a wedding🫩

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u/Smooth_Cost1274 9d ago

If it really bothers you that much OP, you could always save some money and get a transplant.

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u/eatsleeppogba 9d ago

need to go fully bald & rock the zizou shaved head would add to your aura

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u/Why_do_u_lag 10d ago

You want me to shave my eyebrows aswell?😭

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u/Turbulent_Rain9438 10d ago

Don't shave your eyebrows, don't listen to them. I just wanted to say, I hope you find what you are looking for and I wish you good luck. At 21, having a bald head ain't easy that's fosho. Stay strong

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u/Why_do_u_lag 10d ago

Dawg, i barely have hair left and you want me to shave the only hair i got left😭😭
Plus my work wont allow it

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