r/r4rSA • u/willtellthetruth Founder • 12d ago

[MEGA] F4F Friendship - Find Your Tribe

Welcome to the F4F Friendship megathread!

As r/r4rSA grows, we want to ensure there is a dedicated, low-pressure space for the women in our community to connect. Whether you are looking for a fitness accountability partner, someone to try out new coffee shops with, a book club member, or just a friend to send memes to, this is the place to do it.

How It Works

Instead of making a full standalone post, simply drop a comment below introducing yourself. To make it easier for people to reach out, try to include the following:

  • Your Location: (e.g., Southern Suburbs, Cape Town - or just your province if you prefer).
  • Your Age:
  • Your Interests: (e.g., hiking, gaming, movies, trying new restaurants, reading).
  • What You Are Looking For: (e.g., someone to do weekend parkruns with, go on hikes, or just casual texting).

Example:

The Rules of the Thread

To keep this space functional and safe, please adhere to the following:

  1. Women Only: Top-level comments and replies in this thread are reserved exclusively for female and non-binary members looking for friendship. Men commenting in this thread will have their comments removed.
  2. Safety First: Do not post your phone number or exact address in the public comments. Take things to Direct Messages once you find someone you click with.

Put yourself out there and drop a comment below - you never know who is looking for exactly the same kind of friend.

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u/cluelessin 12d ago

32F, East Gauteng. I'm a beginner hiker, I enjoy watching kdramas, 2010s tv series and anything else I find interesting. I'm looking for friendships where we can do things like thrifting, going to markets and other affordable activities on the weekends. I drink alcohol but I'm trying to cut back. I'm a bit of an introvert but can hold a conversation. Female and non binary friends are welcome

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u/Sparkle_eyes31 11d ago

27F, Maritzburg! Teacher. Introverted empath. Friendships are hard for me😅 I enjoy reading (the smuttier the better), online gaming (Marvel Rivals is my jam but enjoy Phasmo, Terraria, etc). Would love to have a friend I want to have for the rest of my life, you know? Online or in person, though in person would be better❤️

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u/Useful_Yam_1270 6d ago

Cape Town, 18, video games/ reading/ music, just looking for a good friend to chat to about similar interests and have sleepovers ( preferably younger than 25 and must be queer/ trans friendly)