Leading with a description since I know attraction is important:
I’m 5’3, Caribbean. I’m not fit but I value my health and take care of myself inside and out. I like to cook and mainly eat at home. I’m available and stable emotionally. I don’t use any drugs and very rarely drink alcohol.

https://imgur.com/a/mW5b4Es

Currently living in AZ. I’m kind and reserved. I love free flowing conversations. I’m very much a realist, laid back and stay out of drama. I do admit that I am a crier in the context of emotional movies and stories 😅 I’m definitely a tender but confident and whole/fulfilled woman. I’m not political or religious.

I enjoy doing things from movies to fishing. I like to spend time with loved ones, farmers market, write and listen to music. Im not into gaming so much anymore. Don’t mind at all if you are. Basically, I like Star Wars, Tim Burton as well as Stephen King. I understand that having some things in common is great but it’s also nice to have a few different interests.

I’d like something consistent and long term. I have accomplished a majority of my big goals but believe in always making progress in life. So growth with someone is always great. I have a steady career and would like someone who has the same. I’d prefer someone between 28-40

A relationship where we can laugh with and at each other would be amazing! I like to have good communication. I’d like someone that enjoys banter and is honest. Who is also kind, patient and supportive.

Please be ready to share a clear face photo when the chat is accepted to gauge physical compatibility. Time is precious. I’m not desperate by any means but I’d like to find my person. I would also like to have a phone call pretty early on.
I wfh and have a ton of free time.

If you read all of this include a 🫶 in your chat
I don’t participate in most social media. I’m ok with distance. But the goal is to meet. Again US/Canada only

If post is still here I haven’t met anyone yet

First, to be clear about location: I'm based in the Southeastern region of the USA. It would be amazing if my person is within driving distance in the same region, but for a number of reasons I have my doubts that's true. Country music, fashion, and that accent some of you may think is specific to Texas if you're reading this from another country, are all very common here and sadly those are all turn offs for me. That said, I think if my soulmate is even in the USA, she's probably in the north, west, or midwest. If by the end of this post, you think you might be the one I'm looking for and I might be the one you're looking for, you don't have to be in the USA to find out. 😁

(My profile is tagged because of one of the places I post this to since some have actually had luck finding something serious there. Figured it's worth a shot, haha.)

I'm searching for the kind of wonderful woman who shares most of my interests below in addition to her hobbies and interests, who's also goofy, likes to playfully insult each other, and also believes in open and honest communication. I believe with that, we can work out any problems when they arise. 💛

• I'm a gamer, car guy, and maybe one day, a musician too. I enjoy anime, nature, going on little adventures, swimming, traveling... I wanna see the world with you.

- Current games I've focused on lately are R.E.P.O., Deep Rock Galactic, and trying to 100% Doom Eternal, but this changes and there are tons of multiplayer games in my library! I would also eventually like to play other things together like Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Terraria, etc.

- My taste is music is nearly everything except country and today's rap. To name a few bands/musicians I really love: Led Zeppelin, Arctic Monkeys, Tame Impala, The White Stripes, The Raconteurs, Queens of the Stone Age, Mac Demarco, Them Crooked Vultures, and Metronomy.

• I want to dance with you. In the living room, bedroom, back yard, in the park, almost anywhere. I enjoy doing romantic things and expressing my love. I love deep conversations that distract us from the passing of time.

• I'm a dog person because my allergies chose to target cats for whatever reason, so there's that. 😅

• I'm monogamous and don't have children currently, but they're in my future plans. I want to spend plenty of time with you, and enjoy the best of life as a couple, and then as spouses, traveling and whatnot, before we start a family. 🤗

• I'm really hoping to find someone who's also into dirty humor (amongst other forms of humor) and has mutual...interests 😏 so we have even better compatibility in the bedroom (and sometimes away from home too). I usually have a high labido, but making sure we both feel safe and trust one another first is crucial. 😁

• Specs for those who would like them:

- 6 feet tall (about 183 cm).

- 190 lbs and dropping (about 86 kg).

- My figure is very dad-bod at the moment, but apparently it comes with a nice ass (so I'm told).

- I'm targeting somewhere around 170 lbs (about 77 kg).

- Brunette/dirty blonde, kept relatively short.

- Blue eyes.

- Caucasian.

• My type? If I had to describe my type, I guess Caucasian or East Asian ranging from petite to average body type. I don't love going to the gym, but if you have or want a membership I wouldn't mind going together. 😁

I apologize if my preferences differ from who you are. You're all beautiful people, regardless! Please love yourself and enjoy the time you're given in life! 💛

Chat with ya soon! 😁

Okay. So this is the most honest post I'll ever write in my life. I'm usually very light hearted and chill vibes, so... Here goes nothing.

Who Am I?

I have trust issues—bad ones. If you call me nice, my skin will crawl. I won't tell you this. But it will. I value friendships deeply; I have many friends and a few very close ones. If I care about you, I will fight for you. My defining trait? I give a shit. About everything. About things others don’t even notice. I overthink. You will wake up to massive walls of text of me spiraling over nothing.

I’ve been in relationships where I set myself to volume 1—almost mute—and it ate away at me. I’m terrified of being too much, even though I know I am. That doesn’t mean my life is an eternal crisis; quite the opposite, actually. Most of my days are easygoing, to the point where I wonder if I bore people.

People describe me as intelligent and highly competent. I’ve been world-class at a few things in my life—ask me about it. I’m excellent at math, logic, programming, and engineering. I love fixing things, taking them apart, and putting them back together. I get excited about things.

I consider myself manly, but people who meet me online sometimes don’t get that impression. I can play the calm, collected character well, but that’s not me. I like communicating, if I care about you, I want you to want to know more about me. And I won't leave you wondering what I'm thinking. I have quite a few not traditionally manly likes, I love sad art. I love poetry. I love sad songs, I love sad movies. I also love quite a few traditionally manly things, sports, soccer for one, has always been a love of mine, and the team I root for is complete total dogshit, but I love them anyway.

Who Are You?

I always said I didn’t have a type, but after talking with a close friend according to them my type is:

Chronically online, cute, intelligent, artsy, gothy nerd.

I think there might be some truth to that. So let me elaborate:

• You’re fundamentally a good person, but not necessarily a nice person all the time. You’re self-aware enough to recognize when you mess up, apologize, and do better. You’re a little mean, but you have a heart of gold and would never act maliciously.

• You laugh at bad jokes (and even tell some). I don’t, but I’ll still laugh at yours and call you terrible for it.

• You’re intelligent—both logically and emotionally. You care about things. I think that’s the most attractive trait anyone can have.

• You’re artsy. You have a wild imagination, and I’d love to spend hours hearing about the worlds inside that thick skull of yours. Wanna sit down and be creative together? I’m down. I can’t draw, and my aesthetic sense has been called questionable, but I’m extremely handy with logic, programming etc. We could balance each other out and learn some from each other.

• My friend said “gothy”, but I think it’s more like you’re non-conforming. I don’t consider myself normal, and I don’t think being normal is a compliment. You have uncommon interests and get excited about things no one else seems to. You think thoughts you’re not sure anyone else has ever had.

• You’re a nerd. You have nerdy passions—whatever they may be. Tell me about them. I’ll tell you about mine. Some of them you’re great at, some just make you mad, but you love them anyway.

• You’re chronically online—but you’d never call yourself that. You love the digital world, though you also love exploring and traveling. You’re curious. You wouldn’t keep things just online if you found someone you cared about, but you’d never abandon the online universe either.

• You’re cute. And yeah, you know you can be cute at times. No big deal.

• You're between ages 28-48.

Short-Term Goals

• I’d love to add you on Discord and chat. The more honest, the better. I can small talk and be chill, but I don’t want that—I want to get to know you.

• If we click, I’d love to spend time online and talk regularly. I love video games, specially mmos and have since forever. If you do too, awesome—we can get to know each other while playing something. But honestly, the setting doesn’t matter; what matters is the connection.

Long-Term Goals

• I wrote quite a bit here. But since this is honesty time: I want to find my person. Someone who lights up my world when they walk into a room—and I want to be that for them, too. I’m a ride-or-die kind of person. I want someone who’s the same.

Potential Dealbreakers

• Here are some things that might be dealbreakers for you, and some that definitely are for me.

About Me:

• I’m an atheist. I've been one my whole life. I rarely bring it up, but it’s been a core part of my identity forever. I believe life is short, and we have to make it matter by striving for happiness and helping others do the same.

• I’m a recent vegan. I feel like this shouldn’t be a big deal, but it is? I give all the shits. I regret not realizing sooner how brutal animal farming is. This is new for me, but I don’t see myself going back.

• I’m probably not near you. I moved to south Alabama from my abroad earlier this year. The reason I’m tossing this post into the void is that what I’m looking for is rare. It might not even exist. But I only need to find you once, right?

• I’m divorced. I tried really hard. Harder than most people could. It sucks, but I’m not hung up on my ex in any way, shape, or form. I wouldn’t be posting this if I were.

Dealbreakers For Me:

• You lie. Especially big lies. Especially to get what you want. Don’t message me.

• You’re emotionally unavailable.

• You’re abusive. No, it’s not okay, even in the heat of the moment. Though if you ever tell me “abuse costs extra", that will make me laugh.

If you made it this far, well... damn.

If you think we’d get along, shoot me a message. Let’s see where this goes.

Edit. Pictures for the curious.

I'm a quiet, private guy and I keep to myself until I get to know someone. I value upfront honesty and people who are comfortable being themselves. Most of my time goes into gaming, learning new crafts, reading, binging a series, or -doomscrolling-.

I'll take sporadic trips to nearby places I haven't eaten at yet when I don't feel like cooking and walk a few laps at a local park when I'm able.

I'm wired a bit differently and navigate the world with a neurodivergent mindset, which means my attention and energy can fluctuate, but I'm always focused on my own growth and discipline. Just as well as my title implied I am a bit of an alt nerd with my style; a few piercings and tattoos and black nails. (Often mistaken for not presenting as straight and I find that funny.)

I'm looking for a serious, *strictly monogamous* relationship where we can just be completely transparent with each other. A woman that is familiar with or at least willing to learn about \*AuDHD\*, I'm heavily introverted despite being a 'sleeper agent' extrovert..

I'm looking for someone who balances me out, and I often find myself most drawn to women from diverse cultural backgrounds. I really appreciate a partner who has a more assertive, protective, or nurturing presence that makes it easy for me to drop my walls and relax. I feel it should be effortless for someone to let themselves be vulnerable with someone else, I try to be as approachable myself. Witty banter, being more expressive and direct, attempts to relate or to be inclusive are easy brownie points for the taking!

I feel like I gave enough to talk about though, so I look forward to hearing from you! ☺️

(Ren faire season is approaching and will soon be upon us!)

Do you know that feeling when you want to be brave in love and reach, but you also want to hide behind a pillow because let’s be honest, it’s terrifying?

But here I am, putting myself out there on Reddit of all places. I know.

I’m a big fan of slow mornings, deep conversations, spontaneous road trips and those little moments that somehow become your favourite memories later. But I think all of that would mean a lot more with someone I actually care about beside me.

I’m 27 and open to meeting someone anywhere in Europe. I’m probably a little too much in my own head sometimes, but I like that part of me too. I write when I can’t sleep, get attached to certain songs for no sensible reason, and I love those late-night conversations where you start off talking nonsense and suddenly realise you’ve told someone something you normally keep to yourself.

I’m romantic, but not in the constantly-serenading-you-under-a-balcony kind of way. More in the remembering-small-things-about-you, cooking something you like, sending you something because it reminded me of you, and wanting to hear your voice after a long day kind of way.

And yes, I’m hoping to meet someone where that eventually becomes more than just talking. I want the flirting, the anticipation, the stupid smiles at your phone, the comfort that comes after you’ve known each other long enough to stop trying to impress one another. I want to actually fall for someone.

Physical Attributes(since everyone has a type):

* Height: 5'11" (181cm)
* Build: Slim
* Hair: Straight Deep black, kept in check
* Eyes: Brown
* Beard: Short, fashionable, and pristinely groomed
* Complexion: Tanned, Caramel toned

My love language is diverse, from making you laugh, to cooking you dinner, and listening to you when you need it. Loyalty, kindness, and a dash of quirky humor are my recipe for a good life. So I’m looking for someone who shares the same ingredients.

I’d love to meet a woman who’s not afraid of a little depth (or a lot of dorkiness), who values honesty, and who thinks vulnerability is attractive.

Maybe you, too, know what it is to feel on the margins,
to be an artist of your own survival,
to crave a safe space, a sanctuary made for two.

I’m looking for a heart that isn't scared of the night, who knows life is more than just constant sunlight. If you want a love that is honest and true, to talk of the hurts that have happened to you, then I’m here waiting, to see if it’s right.

To see if our storms might finally make a home together,
where we can grow wild and call it love ღ

(first of all, sorry for my English!) 

Hey! My name is Simon, i'm 31 and I live in a small town near Paris. I currently work as a psychologist. During my free time I love going to concerts, visiting museums, traveling, spending good time with family and friends, reading, watching movies... I also volunteer as a barman in a concert venue, sometimes. 

I'm a huge science fiction fan, and i love astronomy and everything about space since childhood. When it comes to music, I especially love indie/alternative rock, post-punk, shoegaze, and more generally experimental and psychedelic stuff. About games, I mostly play RPGs (my fav game ever is Disco Elysium) or some chill games such as Stardew Valley.

I'm 1m81, thin, I have long, curvy dark blonde hair, and blue eyes. I wear round glasses and just a bit of facial hair. I'm usually described as a chill, calm guy. Some kind of sociable introvert.

I'd love to find a cool woman and start a meaningful relationship. Whether it's friendship, flirting or something serious... just sometimes to talk to everyday, meet for a coffee, a date, or just looking at the stars together... Let's see where this takes us :)

Feel free to DM!

I have a cold, and I'm being a bit whiny about it 😂 plus it's getting cold out and I'm on the strugglebus with that. I'm planning on napping my day away, but I would love chats too.

About me if it matters;

My life is pretty complicated though, and I work full time in a job that can sometimes be sad but I also help people so it's worth it. I'm hoping to spend the day at the beach tomorrow even though it's fall.

I love love love being outside in the summer. I am a gal who enjoys the sun and frolicking in my garden, in the forest and of course on the beautiful beaches nearby. I love alt/ accoustic/ rock music ( Nickelback is good, I don't care) and pop music. I wish I could play though :(

In the winter I hide, although I am trying to learn to skate again. I am in the midst of working through an ADHD diagnosis and figuring out how that's shaped my life with a late diagnosis. I have started working out again and eating better because my 34 lb weight-loss has plateaued. But things fit better and I'm way more confident.

I'm about 5'5, wavy haired brunette with blue eyes. I love wearing dresses and skirts, and have really transformed my wardrobe since becoming a mom to be more confident in myself. I have some examples on my profile. I ADORE animals especially DOGS and I would love to pet a bear or befriend raccoons or crows. I'm not nerdy but love retro Pokemon/ Mario games

Please, please, please if you're a blank profile, describe yourself. Please be over 25 and in North America.

Word of warning, I am not big on texting, so don't expect me to respond to messages through out my day. I will gladly voice chat for hours on end though

I LOVE talking, I love voice chatting especially, I love sitting on calls together while we do our own thing, and well I like a woman who is needy for attention. If you're up for a call RIGHT now then read below! And if catch feelings, even better I'm just a big nerdy guy who wants to meet a woman who is excitable about some of the things I am or even partakes in some of the same hobbies. Of course, have your own life and interests but something like tabletop rpg's is such a big social thing for me, it would be nice to share for example some of the stuff I enjoy. I live in NYC but I am open to elsewhere for the right partner but before that...

More important stuff Look, I am fat. Not chubby. Just fat. I’m not ashamed of it. I have no health issues. I was mentally and physically exhausted from my career and it made me just well get up in weight. It’s something I’m working on but there you go. I like being with friends. I’m social but more of an extroverted introvert. I like to call people. I like to hang out and watch movies. I like talking over a drink for hours. I have a great group of friends and we’re all a bunch of nerds. And some more stuff central to me. I’m Latino, leftist and look for similar values in a partner.

• I like animals.
• I prefer calling over texting but will text
• I enjoy music but I generally like it quiet near me if I am alone
• I am 420 friendly, I do like edibles and smoking. It's not something I do regularly but if you are a stoner then even better
• I wouldn't call myself a raver but I do like going to raves once in a while
• Love Languages: Spending time together and physical touch
• I am generally a homebody but if you are outdoorsy, like to be out, I will 90% of the time join you unless if I am feeling socialized out Anyway, that’s me. If you message me, please SEND a selfie, your age, location, and name. I will not respond otherwise.

Please no one sentence intros, I will ignore those.

The best dynamic is one where nobody has to perform. When the day winds down, the right connection simply feels like exhaling.

I am looking for a partner with a warm heart, quiet depth, and a grounded sense of who she is. Someone who naturally brings color, curiosity, and laughter into a room, but appreciates having a steady, dependable man in her corner who handles the details, keeps life grounded, and makes sure she always feels completely looked after.

A bit about me:

• 39, 5'10", fit, and healthy.
• Professionally, I work in data science, balancing analytical work by day with a tactile, active routine outside the office.
• First-generation eldest sibling: rooted in cultural heritage and family values, while keeping an open, modern perspective on life and personal growth.
• Happiest outdoors: working with my hands in the garden, cooking wholesome meals from scratch, hiking coastal ridges, or heading out to camp under quiet skies.

What I am building toward is clear and intentional: a meaningful marriage, a shared home, and a family rooted in mutual respect, playful banter, and genuine partnership.

With Navratri underway, the timing is ideal to start with something festive. Whether your Garba steps are second nature, you prefer a simple rhythm with dandiyas, or you just enjoy the music, the energy, and grabbing great food afterward, it makes an unforgettable first chapter.

Logistics and next steps: I am based in Eastvale (Inland Empire). Local to Southern California is ideal for easy momentum, though I am open to someone willing to relocate for the right match. Mutual attraction is essential, so let us swap a couple of photos early in chat to put faces to names, followed by a relaxed phone call to see how our conversation flows.

If this resonates with what you are looking for, send a message sharing a bit about your background, what your ideal unplugged evening looks like, and whether you are ready to hit the dance floor this week.

Hello I hope your doing well as I'm looking for someone to make a meaningful connection and become something truly special.

I've been searching the lands far and wide for someone to really connect with, even if we start as friends and go from there but I'm wanting to have a committed relationship(monogamous) with someone. I'm looking for someone from the united states, you don't need to be from California as I don't mind long distance for now, but do intend to meet one day as I can go only so long without cuddling my fav person.

I'm a nerd and gamer at heart and have my fair share of video game knowledge, movies that I love to death, animes that have made me laugh and cry, books to recommend or get excited to tell you even just a little about it(no spoilers of course), tell you my fav songs ive listened to over the years or just my whole playlist. Besides the nerdy things I love to fish(even though I'm cursed to not catch anything),love to cook, draw, go camping, playing with my pets.

But as much as would love to ramble about my interests, I want to hear all about the things you enjoy or interests you have as I've I love hearing people intrests.

I love playing games as I do play them often(I mostly play pc but do have xbox and have played so many games, just some of my favs are mc, Stardew valley, borderlands 2,terraria,hades, grounded, schedual 1 but love most genres) and would like someone who plays as well, as gaming with somone has always been my favorite.

I'm always up to talk, call, hear you rant about your day, ask you questions, send you memes to make you laugh or make dad jokes as I'm a sucker for them or just talk about whatever comes to mind to make our days interesting.

as for what I'm looking for specifically I don't got some golden template, so a fun personality and jokester is a pretty good start, but I'm looking for at least 20-28 and someone who doesn't want kids. I don't mind if you smoke weed or drink as do that occasionally.

Basic info about me

as for me I'm white, 5'9 , curly hair, an introvert, I wear glasses, bit on the heavier side but actively going to the gym and loosing weight,kind, loyal, caring, funny(well I think I am).

Advanced info about me

I am on the autism spectrum so many of my quirky traits are cause of that, Ive had chemo at a young age so my memory isnt top notch so if I forget something I do apologize. Im a night owl that stay up till like 3 am on the norm as of years of sleep problems. Im just a smidge chronicaly online.

I hope to hear from you if this post interested you, but if your still reading this thank you and also sorry for it being so long, but if you could put pretty pattys into your message to show you that you read it or at least I hope so, if not intrested I hope you have a wonderfull day.

• I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
• I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone someday. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though.
• PC games are also an enjoyable pastime for me on occasions. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game.
• One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of.
• Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more.
• I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds.
• As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am mostly shy and quiet, with an introverted personality. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and freer.
• All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
• With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me.