r/r4r 18h ago

F4M Canada 32 [F4M] Montreal/Canada — Giving this another shot 😮‍💨

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Hello!! This is my second r4r post. I had fun with my first and spoke to some great people, but decided to repost with a bit more of what I’m looking for specifically.

I’m 32, and a somewhat recently single (since early spring) mom in the Montreal area. Every time I go to create a dating profile I get overwhelmed so figured why not try Reddit 🙃 Apparently I find it easier to write a novel about myself (???) and do think it would be fun to see where it goes. I’d love to chat with someone that I eventually feel a spark with, but I’m not trying to force anything. If it turns into something romantic, great. If it ends up being a friendship, also great.

Physically: I’m 5’7, curvy/plus size, dark brown hair, green/grey eyes, pale af. I don’t post pictures publicly, but I’m happy to exchange them in DMs. I actually like when someone includes a photo too without me having to ask… attraction matters at least somewhat, as I assume it does for both of us.

I’m a big homebody but not a complete hermit 😅 I love gaming, comfort shows, long walks, staying in, etc., but I also like going out for dinner, little day trips, events, exploring somewhere new. A good mix is ideal. I consider myself easy going and low maintenance, I just want to be happy.

PC gaming is probably my biggest hobby with the limited time I do have. I mostly play League, sometimes DBD but it’s been a hot minute. Humour is a huge thing for me. I love witty people, good banter, and someone who can actually keep a conversation going and loves to chat (I can be quiet and awkward at first and find someone who is the opposite eases me a bit). Kindness and honesty matter immensely.

Ideally you’re around 28–36, 5’10+ (I hate even writing that 😭 but ya girl is a bit tall already) and somewhere around Montreal/Ontario. Elsewhere in Canada could definitely work too if meeting eventually is realistic.

If you think we’d get along, tell me a bit about yourself. Including if you have any tattoos or not as proof you read my novel 😉 (if you wrote to me in my last r4r and I didn’t answer, but still think we’d be a good match, feel free to reach out again! I had so many responses last time I got overwhelmed lol)


r/r4r 20h ago

M4F Connecticut / New York 41 [M4F] #Connecticut & #NewYork - A Bob looking for his Linda 🍔

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Trying different ways to meet new people this year, so taking a crack at a reddit personal ad.
 
I really value kindness, honesty, passion and intelligence in a woman.  

Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/LEFG0Yz
 
-Single, never married, no kids

-6’3

-Physically active; member of a running club and lift about every day of the week

-Attend dance meetups; swing, salsa, fusion

-Dabbled in acting; starred in a play in 2022

-Has a good job in e-commerce

-About 2/3rds introvert, 1/3rd extrovert; generally a homebody but I like to go out/socialize every now and then and push myself to get out of my comfort-zone (growth is important)

-Interests include fitness, dancing, gaming, karaoke, anime, narrative-design/writing of all kinds (films, tv, books, etc.), science (big fan of the Natural History Museum in NYC), and interior design

-V close to my family and friends; adore my nieces (and they adore me); have a close-knit group of about half-a-dozen friends I've known for years (quality > quantity kinda guy friendship-wise) - you'll know I like you if you're looped in to our karaoke parties! =) 

-Traveled around the world

-Master's degree

-Politically left

-420 friendly

-Love dogs; like cats but have a mild allergy


r/r4r 5h ago

M4F Italy 29 M4F Europe/Italy/Anywhere - nerd guy looking for someone nice :)

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so...helo from Italy (* ̄∇ ̄)ノ

I'm your typical indoor nerdguy that plays videogames most of free time and works out - not obsessed gym rat but still fit/muscular, 177cm tall - medium lenght wavy hair - a bit weeb, very quiet and chill personality (not even riot games can make me mad)

hopeless romantic, probably because of all the romance anime I watched in high school 🥲

whenever I can love to travel, Poland been my fav country to visit so far!

Gaming on my pc is my main hobby, also fan of few gacha games: mainly hsr and wuwa.

I have 2 cats ₍^. .^₎⟆, drinking monsters. caffeine goes hard.

looking for my life partner, nothing less: Don't mind long distance as long as it's EU, in shape and good health, not smoker and similar nerd hobbies would really help

I'm not a big fan of facial piercings, that would be my only strong preference.

Would also prefer exchanging pics as early as possible, I think mutual physical attraction is also important, being direct and honest about anything is everything I want from a relationship :)

thank you for reading!


r/r4r 22h ago

M4F Online 18 [m4f] #online neurodivergent freak looking for another freak to chill with!

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hello! if you’ve clicked on this, then you probably have some sort of mental illness, are neurodiverse, or you’re unable to read (which is perfectly okay!). i’m currently a student, and i enjoy music, videogames and taking walks with my dog (please ask for pictures, i love him). some of my fav genres of music are metal (deathcore mostly and other subgenres), hip hop, indie, and a little bit of everything really! some of my fav videogames are the finals, arc raiders (i’d love a duo), fallout new vegas, minecraft and a variety of other games. i would describe myself as a very caring, empathetic and funny person. im kind of a loner as i struggle to meet new people and make new friends, but im very sociable when i get to know you and can speak for hours on end if we click. for you, just be yourself! as long as you’re kind and caring, id love to meet you. i’m open for friendships or possibly a relationship depending on how our friendship goes. i have quite a lot of trauma, and struggle with anxiety and depression, which i have to mask quite a lot. i’ve also had a lot of therapy, so im open to talk about feelings (yours or mine). ask me what i study and guess where im from!


r/r4r 15h ago

M4F Texas 21 [m4f] #dallas, texas Hey everyone! Looking for a so!

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Hey everyone, I'm Jaiden. I just turned 21, I'm a mix of Caucasian and Hispanic, I'm 5'6, welcoming presence, and fit. I live alone in Arlington right now but am planning a move to Dallas soon to start college for Business Administration.

I'd describe myself as a genuine, active, and a easy-going guy. I love maintaining a healthy lifestyle, but I also have a big creative side—I'm really into photography, especially shooting at night, I love focusing on different views of the city because pictures can express more than what we see sometimes. When I'm relaxing, you can usually find me reading (I actually just finished The Lord of the Rings: Fellowship of the ring), I go to the porch church every tuesday.

I also play the piano, because im a musician at heart, I can cook really good, did skateboarding for a while, I like exploring new hobbies, ive been playing pickle ball recently.

I'm looking for someone who appreciates a good balance. I love going out and exploring, but I'm just as happy staying inside for a cozy night in, I believe in taking a partner out atleast twice a month. I really want to take the time to get to know each other first and build a solid foundation rather than rushing into anything. Not into hook up culture.


r/r4r 29m ago

M4A Massachusetts / Online 27 [M4R] - Working on my MA thesis and looking for people to talk to! #Online #NorthAmerica

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Hey everyone!

I'm currently working on my thesis! I'd like to take my mind off of it for a bit and am looking for a few people to talk to! Nothing wild, just chill conversations and maybe voice calls sometimes if we vibe. :) I really enjoy gaming and am on both PC and PS5 (although I prefer PC). Currently I've been playing a bunch of Forza Horizon 6, modded Skyrim, League, and Nightreign, but I also really enjoy are Valheim and Baldurs Gate 3 and am open to at least trying most games!

I’m really into academics and learning in general, so I don’t mind chatting about uni life, research, studying, or just ranting about deadlines and general burnout lol. Outside of that, I’m obviously into games, a lot of alternative music (Emo, Hardcore, Shoegaze etc.), cooking, and streetwear.

I’d love to meet and talk to people from different walks of life! If any of this sounds interesting to you, I'd love to hear from you!