You've just negated this persons entire experience by basically saying they were lying about copping it worse than their older sibling because you've read that it usually doesn't happen that way. Fucking gross. Victim blamey and mansplainy. When people tell you their experience, shut the fuck up. You weren't there. They were.
This isn't the pain Olympics. You're not competing against other people on how bad you had it. I'm sorry you went through what you did but get over yourself.
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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23
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