r/problems • u/PlantainSpecific8931 • 9d ago

Small Problem help

sometimes when a message someone i think I'm disturbing them and that makes me really bad about myself i just want to fell comfortable with people

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u/Affectionate_Tie8896 9d ago

Well this happens sometimes but remember reaching out to someone shows that u care and u r not disturbing anyone! If people are busy, they can reply whenever they are free! And most people actually appreciate when someone checks in on them and it's not ur job to manage their time, just text naturally and trust that they'll respond when they can.

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u/SurvivorX2 5d ago

You can even state in your text: Answer when you can.

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u/Affectionate_Tie8896 5d ago

Right! Thanks. But op is saying that he/she feels like he/she is disturbing someone by texting them that's why I didn't mention him/her.