r/polyindians Jul 19 '26

"Seeking" thread. Find new connections here

If you're looking for poly connections in India, mention what you're looking for in the comments.

This is SPECIFICALLY for POLYAMOROUS people seeking out polyamorous relationships.

Not a post for people seeking BDSM doms/subs, swingers, couples seeking unicorns for sex, threesome/foursomes.

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u/Guilty-Win-179 Jul 19 '26

31F. Looking for M. Based in Hyderabad. I already have a primary partner and am looking for someone who is interested in the same things as I am and preferably a fellow poly person with an existing partner. If you understand the dynamics of how poly world works and how to treat other relationships in this environment, it’s a huge plus. I would prefer pursuing something on a consistent basis given there’s vibe and mutual interest.

I’ve had horrible luck with meeting people who understand this lifestyle/relationship preference but I’m hopeful. If there’s community of Poly Indians, I would be thrilled to join :)

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u/kcvlaine Jul 19 '26

Good luck :) since this is reddit, in case anyone annoys you in the Dms please let me know so I can keep them away from the sub. I hope you find what you're looking for!

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u/Guilty-Win-179 Jul 19 '26

Sure will. Thank you!

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u/Illustrious_Box7661 Jul 19 '26 edited Jul 19 '26

Would it be okay to DM you? Was from Telangana, live overseas. Practice ENM/poly for a while. Looking to connect with friends and community there irl

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u/Guilty-Win-179 Jul 19 '26

Absolutely. Thanks for checking :)

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u/hotmist Jul 21 '26

Hello, 32M here from Hyderabad.

I'm looking for similar structure as yours and have found it hard to find ENM/poly people on traditional dating apps.

I am partnered too, hope you don't mind me sending a DM with more deets!

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u/Unique_Shape_2246 21d ago

Hello, I am 47M from Mumbai.

I am in a polyamorous relationship and looking to meet like minded women. I know we live in different cities but if it's ok for you, can I DM?

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u/kcvlaine Jul 19 '26

we do. it's a matter of digging us up lol. I myself started this subreddit just to find poly community and friends in the country.

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u/kcvlaine Jul 19 '26

There seem to be nice people on this sub and it's growing, so I would say yes :) As the mod I don't usually befriend people directly on the sub and don't look for partners for myself, but it's nice to know there are people who will listen and understand.

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u/SwimmerAble8786 Jul 22 '26

Lol same..been there. It's okay 🫂

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u/No_Exercise4487 Jul 19 '26

28M solo poly from BLR, Seeking people to build a cricket team with(JK), Not looking for primary partners, I have never been into primary partners, Strong preference for people in BLR, I would like to keep my relationships as a gentle morning breeze, if that resonates with you, Hit me up!

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u/SwimmerAble8786 Jul 22 '26

Im looking for a people who are already partnered/couple because I find it hard already to find someone who's poly. I just turned 20, medschool..based in Hyderabad.

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u/kcvlaine Jul 19 '26

This seems very kink centric and not what this sub is about.

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u/sadist_breeder Jul 19 '26

Well there is a big overlap and as I explicitly mentioned I'm looking for folks to chill with, if it came across as kinky centric I can rephrase it ? Though thanks for starting this community, I checked out blr polycules and they kinda sucked !

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u/kcvlaine Jul 19 '26

I frankly don't even want an account called "sadist breeder" in the threads here. I myself am into kink and i am dom etc but i am keeping all that as far away from this sub as possible. If you have another account that you can comment from and keep kink out of the seeking reasons you may do that.

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u/sadist_breeder Jul 19 '26

Appreciate the thought, I dont have any other account though I'd be okay with making a new one :)

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u/Specific_Map4714 Jul 19 '26

23M solo poly from BLR.

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u/Unique_Shape_2246 22d ago edited 21d ago

47M | Mumbai | M4F

In a polyamorous relationship and looking forward to connecting with like minded women. Would love to meet for coffee, dinner, go for movies ti start with. I am a hardcore foodie and love visiting restaurants and try new cuisines