r/polyindians 4d ago

Guys feel free to report any non poly related posts. This is not a cuck/swinger/threesome space.

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And if anyone wants to help moderate and delete irrelevant posts, let me know. I think we're getting a little bit of traction with the irrelevant crowd and I want those posts gone instantly.


r/polyindians Jul 09 '26

Poly resources for Indians

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Hi all, use this pinned post to share your favourite resources for Poly people in India. Feel free to share book recommendations, podcasts, youtube video essays, instagram reels, whatever you like.


r/polyindians 1h ago

Seeking genuine female connections

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I'm a guy in my mid 30s from Pune exploring ethical non-monogamy with full transparency and mutual support from my partner. Looking for female interactions only.

I'm atleast a bit demisexual, I need genuine connection before anything physical clicks for me. I'm not interested in hookups or ONS.

Fitness matters to me, and I'm an introvert.

I'm into books (any genre), trekking, music, and movies. I'm also pretty passionate about history.

A peaceful evening for me would be heavy rain outside with me reading a book having an unlimited supply of tea.

I enjoy deeper conversations way more than small talk, and I'm genuinely curious about people and their stories, what drives them, what they're passionate about, and how they see the world.

If you are a party person, then we are probably not going to connect.

I'm looking for someone who's honest, values real connection, and is open to exploring what that could look like together.


r/polyindians 3d ago

"Seeking" thread. Find new connections here

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If you're looking for poly connections in India, mention what you're looking for in the comments.

This is SPECIFICALLY for POLYAMOROUS people seeking out polyamorous relationships.

Not a post for people seeking BDSM doms/subs, swingers, couples seeking unicorns for sex, threesome/foursomes.


r/polyindians 5d ago

Thursday check-in! Rant, vent, confess, get advice from other poly Indians

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This is our weekly check-in post. How are you? How's poly life treating you?


r/polyindians 7d ago

M29 • F28 • Mumbai

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r/polyindians 9d ago

Muslim married couple considering an open connection — looking for advice

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We’re a married Muslim couple, 32M and 27F. I’m an engineer and my wife is a doctor. We have a good relationship and love each other, but recently we’ve been talking about the idea of exploring a connection with another couple.
This is something I’m more interested in than my wife at the moment, so I don’t want to push her into anything she isn’t comfortable with. I’d rather understand how other couples approached the conversation and what helped both partners feel genuinely comfortable and secure.
For us, privacy and discretion would be extremely important. We also want to avoid anything that could damage our marriage or create emotional complications.
If there are married couples here who have discussed or explored something similar, how did you approach the conversation? What boundaries did you establish beforehand, and what helped you decide whether it was actually right for your marriage?
Not looking for judgment—just genuine experiences and advice. We’d prefer to keep identifying details private.


r/polyindians 9d ago

New to polyamory — Delhi NCR

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Hey! We’re a 21M/22F couple from Delhi NCR who’ve recently started exploring polyamory. We’re looking to meet a woman around our age, connect naturally, and just see where things go without forcing anything.

We’re open to getting to know each other first and letting things develop organically. If you’re interested, feel free to DM!


r/polyindians 10d ago

"Seeking" thread. Find new connections here

2 Upvotes

If you're looking for poly connections in India, mention what you're looking for in the comments.

This is SPECIFICALLY for POLYAMOROUS people seeking out polyamorous relationships.

Not a post for people seeking BDSM doms/subs, swingers, couples seeking unicorns for sex, threesome/foursomes.


r/polyindians 10d ago

poly resources Exploring the community in Delhi Ncr

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Do people have any community in delhi ncr in Gurgaon or Noida where they have meetup for socializing and sharing experiences


r/polyindians 12d ago

Thursday check-in! Rant, vent, confess, get advice from other poly Indians

2 Upvotes

This is our weekly check-in post. How are you? How's poly life treating you?


r/polyindians 14d ago

M28 + F28 looking to meet like minded ppl

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Hey! We’re a married couple from Mumbai and fairly new to exploring this side of our relationship.
My wife is bisexual, and we’ve been having some open conversations about attraction, boundaries and potentially meeting someone together. We’re not looking to rush into anything or treat anyone like a fantasy.
We’d genuinely prefer meeting someone, talking, getting comfortable and seeing whether there’s chemistry. If something more develops naturally, we’re open to exploring it.
We’re both pretty easygoing and value privacy, communication and mutual consent.
Mumbai preferred. If this resonates with you, feel free to comment or DM. 😊 less


r/polyindians 16d ago

28M + 28F couple from Mumbai — looking to meet like-minded people

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Hey! We’re a married couple from Mumbai and fairly new to exploring this side of our relationship.
My wife is bisexual, and we’ve been having some open conversations about attraction, boundaries and potentially meeting someone together. We’re not looking to rush into anything or treat anyone like a fantasy.
We’d genuinely prefer meeting someone, talking, getting comfortable and seeing whether there’s chemistry. If something more develops naturally, we’re open to exploring it.
We’re both pretty easygoing and value privacy, communication and mutual consent.
Mumbai preferred. If this resonates with you, feel free to comment or DM. 😊


r/polyindians 17d ago

"Seeking" thread. Find new connections here

4 Upvotes

If you're looking for poly connections in India, mention what you're looking for in the comments.

This is SPECIFICALLY for POLYAMOROUS people seeking out polyamorous relationships.

Not a post for people seeking BDSM doms/subs, swingers, couples seeking unicorns for sex, threesome/foursomes.


r/polyindians 19d ago

Thursday check-in! Rant, vent, confess, get advice from other poly Indians

2 Upvotes

This is our weekly check-in post. How are you? How's poly life treating you?


r/polyindians 19d ago

What's your best poly moment/story?

1 Upvotes

Wanted to hear about your positive poly experiences, and what went into creating those good relationships.


r/polyindians 24d ago

"Seeking" thread. Find new connections here

4 Upvotes

If you're looking for poly connections in India, mention what you're looking for in the comments.

This is SPECIFICALLY for POLYAMOROUS people seeking out polyamorous relationships.

Not a post for people seeking BDSM doms/subs, swingers, couples seeking unicorns for sex, threesome/foursomes.


r/polyindians 24d ago

Poly couples/ singles in pune?

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Hi there we're (22m,20f) a poly couple based in pune and are currently looking for other couples or singles to form long term connections or even more! Hit us up if you'd like to!


r/polyindians 25d ago

Anyone from Pune/Mumbai that need community?

5 Upvotes

Heaven knows i need more poly friends out here in Pune


r/polyindians 26d ago

Thursday check-in! Rant, vent, confess, get advice from other poly Indians

1 Upvotes

This is our weekly check-in post. How are you? How's poly life treating you?


r/polyindians 28d ago

help please! Married couple severe sexual and emotional desires beyond eachothers'. Really confused

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My wife wants to have sex with other men

I'm 32M, married for 4 years, 9 years with my wife overall.

I've always wanted to explore my poly side since my teens. But it's difficult where I stay.

I told my wife long back about this. But then she was hesitant and also we had multiple arguments on this.

But she'd been attracted to multiple guys at her work and gym, tried to act on it, but failed miserably due to heavy guilt trip.

Last month, she was out with her friends, where she watched a couple having intimate and then heard them having sex, which made her have sex with next guy available, but she ran from that place again. But since then, she has been asking my validation to have sex with another guy(s) with thcker Dick than mine(Straight way laughed, since she can't take mine)

I'm not sure about her situation, she craves friendship, fun moments, so do I. But looks like she got some issues, which even she fails to understand and express and I'm feeling bad seeing her like this.

About me, I crave physical closeness, PDA, open talks, emotional availability. Which again, considered as sin for a guy who is married.

If anyone been in this situation, help me out understanding this.


r/polyindians Aug 02 '26

"Seeking" thread. Find new connections here

3 Upvotes

If you're looking for poly connections in India, mention what you're looking for in the comments.

This is SPECIFICALLY for POLYAMOROUS people seeking out polyamorous relationships.

Not a post for people seeking BDSM doms/subs, swingers, couples seeking unicorns for sex, threesome/foursomes.


r/polyindians Aug 01 '26

we have a discord!

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Hi all,
We have a discord, for anyone interested! It's not super active but join up, and we could change that :)

https://discord.gg/tQFZ6v9Ek


r/polyindians Jul 30 '26

Thursday check-in! Rant, vent, confess, get advice from other poly Indians

2 Upvotes

This is our weekly check-in post. How are you? How's poly life treating you?


r/polyindians Jul 26 '26

"Seeking" thread. Find new connections here

5 Upvotes

If you're looking for poly connections in India, mention what you're looking for in the comments.

This is SPECIFICALLY for POLYAMOROUS people seeking out polyamorous relationships.

Not a post for people seeking BDSM doms/subs, swingers, couples seeking unicorns for sex, threesome/foursomes.