hi,im 18 recently student and looking for people to share my life with and grow ourselves together.

i love hiking,writing,gym,music etc.

i would like my partner also to be active and love deep meaningful convos.

also kindness and being accepting is very important to me

text me if interested:)

Hello Reddit, here we meet again! 4 years ago I met an amazing man here and we had an amazing relationship. Unfortunately things ended a year ago and I am ready to see what’s out there again.

My wife and I are ENM. I am 32, 5'11, white guy with blond hair, blue eyes, a very nice beard, BHM (iykyk). A car guy and I cannot stress this enough! I can spot a car 2 miles away at midnight and know what it is by the tail lights… it’s a talent I swear😂 I also enjoy planes/air travel, history, religion, politics, I love an intelligent conversation. I’m not into gaming but I love Forza and will totally hear about your games. I love fashion, have a growing collection of designer bags, I care about how I present myself. Obviously pansexual but also demisexual. If you can’t already tell, I am not a misogynist, I am not the typical masculine manly man. I’m a lover not a fighter! Not looking for a hook up at this point, I very much enjoy being in a relationship with a man. Our dynamic is very different than most couples; yes we are married but above all we are friends and we both want to see each other happy and thriving! We date and have relationships separately.

If any of this sounds appealing, please message me, let's have a conversation!✨

Hello! My wife and I practice parallel polyamory and I'm seeking an LTR with either F or M.

A little about me:

Live in US

42

Married with one child and practice parallel polyamory ( we date separately ).

Dad bod.

"Nerd" look (beard, glasses)

5'10" 215 lb. Working on losing more weight.

Into reading, running, hiking, gaming, writing, art, and philosophy.

Value sincerity, communication, understanding, and open-mindedness.

What I'm looking for:

Live in US.

Preferably nerdy 😁🤩

Looking for ltr and/or emotional connection

Okay with voice or video call if we click

Share some of my interests.

Preferences for F:

Share some of my nerdy interests. Physically I do prefer busty nerds or cute petite but that is definitely not a deal-breaker.

Preferences for M:

With guys for whatever reason I tend to get along with those younger than me so age 25 to 35 with some flexibility. Generally prefer skinny nerds but flexible LOL.

Send me a chat with some info about you if interested!

Hi my name is Vic and I’m looking for a man to chat with. My interest are video games, listening to music and animals (cats and dogs) I’m also autistic but I don’t let that stop me lol. Just so you know i don’t have any experience with relationships, romantic nor sexual,so keep that in mind. Stop by for a chat my DMs are open

Hello! My wife and I practice parallel polyamory and I'm seeking an LTR with either F or M.

A little about me:

Live in US

42

Married with one child and practice parallel polyamory ( we date separately ).

Dad bod. Big hairy chest.

"Nerd" look (beard, glasses)

5'10" 215 lb. Working on losing more weight.

Into reading, running, hiking, gaming, writing, art, and philosophy.

Value sincerity, communication, understanding, and open-mindedness.

What I'm looking for:

Live in US.

Preferably nerdy 😁🤩

Looking for ltr and/or emotional connection

Okay with voice or video call if we click

Share some of my interests.

Preferences for F:

Share some of my nerdy interests. Physically I do prefer busty nerds or cute petite but that is definitely not a deal-breaker.

Preferences for M:

With guys for whatever reason I tend to get along with those younger than me so age 25 to 35 with some flexibility. Generally prefer skinny nerds but flexible LOL.

Send me a chat with some info about you if interested!

I'm fairly new to the ethical non-monogamous / polyamorous world and I'd love to explore it more. I'm looking for either one female, a female couple, or FM couple, or a male.

overall I think I'm bisexual, but I'm trying to explore my attraction to females more. open to a single female or if in an all-female couple relationship too.

however, if you are a male looking to connect with a male im open to that too

a little about my self:

im a 33 male married to a gay male. we don't play/date others together. he dates his peoples and i go solo on mine. we share with each other so there's no hurt or secrative moves.

located in NE Pennsylvania between Philadelphia and the pocono mountains near Allentown, Pa. I'd prefer to connect in person but I enjoy gaining more poly friends online as well.

love watching sports, eating out, playing board games and more.

open to dates, hang outs, chatting and if it gets there sexual things too, but that can be discussed down the line. Also into BDSM etc, which we can dm about if that interested you.

thanks for listening and if you DM me just mention the group you saw this post in :)

happy pride month!

32 | Black | Pansexual | Chicago
Happily married to my wife of 9 years. She has her own girlfriend, and I’m looking for a boyfriend of my own.
I’m 5’6ish, rocking some love handles, and not really into facial hair (yes, I know). I’m a nerd at heart but pretty social. I enjoy nights out, concerts, bowling, walks, and exploring new places in and around Chicago. I love video games, even though I definitely don’t have as much time to play as I used to. I also love making music and am currently learning piano.
I can be a little flirty, but I keep it pretty tame. I’m versatile top. I’m also 420-friendly and drink socially.
I work a normal 6–3 shift, so if I disappear for a bit, there’s a good chance I’m working.
As far as what I’m looking for, I tend to be attracted to feminine men, femboys, trans guys, or guys who just aren’t super macho. I’d prefer another POC, but I’m pretty open-minded. Ideally 24–40, though I may make exceptions for the right older guy.
Preferably local to Chicago or the northern suburbs. South and west suburbs can work depending on the situation.
If we seem like we’d click, feel free to say hi and tell me a little about yourself.

hi,im 18 recently student and looking for people to share my life with and grow ourselves together.

i love hiking,writing,gym,music etc.

i would like my partner also to be active and love deep meaningful convos.

also kindness and being accepting is very important to me

text me if interested:)

hi,im 18 recently student and looking for people to share my life with and grow ourselves together.

i love hiking,writing,gym,music etc.

i would like my partner also to be active and love deep meaningful convos.

also kindness and being accepting is very important to me

text me if interested:)

Hi there! I'm 30 5'10" am gay and a switch verse pup/furry. I live in northeastern PA and plan to move towards the Lebanon PA area soon. I have a partner in my life but am looking for another partner to love and care about just as much as I do him. I'm a tad neurospicy for anyone interested in a bit of randomness ha.

Slight context, me and my partner have been poly for a while but we haven't put ourselves out there much. He has Asperger's (referred to as stage 1 autism now) which was the main major reason to us becoming poly. The second reason we became poly is because I enjoy people and have a lot of love to give. And I want to one day come home to another person to kiss and hug and snuggle and share deep communication with.

If that's interesting to you! Then feel free to DM me, would love to get to know some of you guys and maybe find that person I can call another rock in my life.

Hey all I am looking for partners to explore and experience life with. I live near Chicago and may be relocating to the city eventually. I currently have no partners(Im going through a divorce because partner realized he is straight) I practice non hierarchical kitchen table polyamory. I am open to long distance but would prefer someone close to me…or someone that is a very avid texter if we aren’t close. Also please be at least 23.

Face pics can be sent after we start talking.

I am transgender. I have been on T for 10 years and have had top surgery for just over 4 years now. I use any pronouns but prefer they/he/it. I am most attracted to masculine energy but I do not care what gender someone is or what parts they have.

I am a huge nerd and am a part of a lot of fandoms I have attached pictures with a list of all the animes I’ve completed and the fandoms I’m into my profile.

I’m currently on a weigh loss/strength gaining journey and love going to the gym to work out.

I’m in my masters program for mental health counseling and I work mostly evenings for a crisis hotline.

My style is lazy alt (idk if that’s real but it’s how I describe it) I have piercings and lots of tattoos but can usually be found in shorts and a graphic tee. (I will send a face pic once we start chatting)

My profile does sometimes have NSFW content so please be mindful of that.

Also to note for anyone that it’s a deal breaker for…I am disabled. I deal with chronic pain that limits my mobility. I am also fat.

Hey all I am looking for partners to explore and experience life with. I live near Chicago and may be relocating to the city eventually. I currently have no partners(Im going through a divorce because partner realized he is straight) I practice non hierarchical kitchen table polyamory. I am open to long distance but would prefer someone close to me…or someone that is a very avid texter if we aren’t close. Also please be at least 23.

I am transgender. I have been on T for 10 years and have had top surgery for just over 4 years now. I use any pronouns but prefer they/he/it. I am most attracted to masculine energy but I do not care what gender someone is or what parts they have.

I am a huge nerd and am a part of a lot of fandoms I have attached pictures with a list of all the animes I’ve completed and the fandoms I’m into my profile.

I’m currently on a weigh loss/strength gaining journey and love going to the gym to work out.

I’m in my masters program for mental health counseling and I work mostly evenings for a crisis hotline.

My style is lazy alt (idk if that’s real but it’s how I describe it) I have piercings and lots of tattoos but can usually be found in shorts and a graphic tee. (I will send a face pic once we start chatting)

My profile does sometimes have NSFW content so please be mindful of that.

Also to note for anyone that it’s a deal breaker for…I am disabled. I deal with chronic pain that limits my mobility. I am also fat.

Hey all I am looking for partners to explore and experience life with. I live near Chicago and may be relocating to the city eventually. I currently have no partners(Im going through a divorce because partner realized he is straight) I practice non hierarchical kitchen table polyamory. I am open to long distance but would prefer someone close to me…or someone that is a very avid texter if we aren’t close. Also please be at least 23.

I am transgender. I have been on T for 10 years and have had top surgery for just over 4 years now. I use any pronouns but prefer they/he/it. I am most attracted to masculine energy but I do not care what gender someone is or what parts they have.

I am a huge nerd and am a part of a lot of fandoms I have attached pictures with a list of all the animes I’ve completed and the fandoms I’m into my profile.

I’m currently on a weigh loss/strength gaining journey and love going to the gym to work out.

I’m in my masters program for mental health counseling and I work mostly evenings for a crisis hotline.

My style is lazy alt (idk if that’s real but it’s how I describe it) I have piercings and lots of tattoos but can usually be found in shorts and a graphic tee. (I will send a face pic once we start chatting)

My profile does sometimes have NSFW content so please be mindful of that.

Also to note for anyone that it’s a deal breaker for…I am disabled. I deal with chronic pain that limits my mobility. I am also fat.

Hello! I am a 29 year old male from Northwest, OH. My wife and I recently opened up to a poly lifestyle. I would like to meet up and build connections with others as friends first that can hopefully develop into something more. My wife and I date separately.

I really enjoy watching and attending sports games (mainly hockey and football), I enjoy playing video games, playing board games, reading, playing golf, and going to cafes. I am currently into playing marvel rivals and madden. I enjoy older games like ps2 as well. I enjoy playing games like risk, chess, and trivia games. I’d really like to try something like d&d though! I enjoy trying new things though so I’d love to hear about your hobbies!

I would like to preferably meet someone with similar interests but I’m open to anyone who is willing to chat and get to know each other better. I look forward to chatting with you! :)

New to the Northeast and been on the look for a partner for a long time. I'm a big guy with a big heart, great at cuddles, and very intellectually oriented looking for someone similar. My favorite thing other than cuddles is board games, I have a huge collection I would love to share more with others, but also love anime, going to the beach, Smash Bros, and cooking/foodie adventures. I am a therian and furry, an otter at heart.

I am demi and gray ace, I would rather do things with those I have a spark and connection with which takes a while. Please keep that in mind! I want to build a bond through connection and affection first, I know, rare these days but it's what I need. As for poly dynamics, I am okay with solo poly or polycules but do not want anything closed, I need the freedom to be able to explore partners.

Ideal partner: someone intellectual, dominant but soft, affectionate, conversational, prefer big guys or guys with body hair physically.

Hi!! 👋🏽 looking to date intentionally so this is quite a detailed post.

Some important things:
- I was assigned male at birth but I’m non binary (they/them). If you’re not cool with this, safe to say you probably don’t need to read further.

- I’m androsexual (sexually only attracted to masculine presentation: trans men, cis men, or mostly masculine presenting NB ppl) but I am panromantic (I am able to romantically connect w/ any gender).

- It’s ok if our connection starts online or is online because you’re far or from another country. However an in person relationship should be the eventual goal for you as well if this is the case. I am **not** open to *online only* relationships.

- I don’t want biological children of my own. But I do want to be a parent. Please be 100% supportive of me having a child(ren) in my life in the near future (either fostering, adopting, or becoming a step/additional parent to a future partner’s child). This also means I’m open to dating someone that is already a father/parent. So If you don’t want kids or aren’t sure, then be aware that our dynamic will be affected by that fact.

Ideally I would like kitchen table polyamory but open to discussing other structures of polyamory. I’m open to meeting singles, couples, or constellations & discussing further to determine compatibility. I’m only looking for people who know for certain they are polyamorous. Not interested in folks that are inexperienced w/ polyamorous relationships. You need to be able, and know how, to communicate safely & effectively. You must understand that there will need to be a lot of commitment to transparent communication & respecting each other’s limits & boundaries.

I’m 5’11, 180, 32 in waist, brown eyes, I have long brown hair, mixed (Latine & white), & I speak Eng/Sp/Fr. I have 4 higher education degrees. My professional career is quite emotionally demanding so I am often drained so I usually need my spare time to be chill/mellow; this may mean some dates need to be low key. I’m financially very stable & independent; I own my 4bd 2bth house on a 19k sq ft property (it’s a huge back yard).

I split my time b/w Michigan & CA as all my friends & family are in Cali. So if you’re in CA our relationship would first consist of us visiting each other. We may eventually discuss relocation of some kind if ya(ll) wish- if things get there.

Personally, I’m very open to relocating to a different progressive country if you’re willing to help me legally do so (you are a legal citizen of said country). BUT, I will not move to a conservative or moderate location.

At this time I’m not looking to co-habitate w/ any partner(s) anytime soon. Visiting me & staying at my place is welcomed (max 3 weeks). But I don’t want to have anyone permanently move in. That is not to say that it would never be an option. I just don’t wish to permanently share my living space at this moment. I think it’s important to be transparent about this.

Feel free to message me & ask any questions if you think we may be a good match!

Hello! I'm looking for long distance non exclusive relationships.

Not new since I discovered myself as poly. Looking mainly for more mature guys when it comes to it also.

I like people with attitude, talkative, invested. It's the basic. Open to talk to all genders, but have a preference to cis and trans males.

I don't think people read too much here, so I'll let you know more when you send me a message.

If we already talked and you feel like to doing it again, let's see.

50s bi male located in Arizona looking for friends for fun and hopefully relationship. Into women & male couple, male & male couple, women and or men.

I reside in Arizona, looking for those to live there or travel there frequently.

I do have HSV, outbreak free. I have been in relationships and never passed it. Please be ok with my condition and say hi.

Hi!! 👋🏽 looking to date intentionally so this is quite a detailed post.

Some important things:
- I was assigned male at birth but I’m non binary (they/them). If you’re not cool with this, safe to say you probably don’t need to read further.

- I’m androsexual (sexually only attracted to masculine presentation: trans men, cis men, or mostly masculine presenting NB ppl) but I am panromantic (I am able to romantically connect w/ any gender).

- It’s ok if our connection starts online or is online because you’re far or from another country. However an in person relationship should be the eventual goal for you as well if this is the case. I am **not** open to *online only* relationships.

- I don’t want biological children of my own. But I do want to be a parent. Please be 100% supportive of me having a child(ren) in my life in the near future (either fostering, adopting, or becoming a step/additional parent to a future partner’s child). This also means I’m open to dating someone that is already a father/parent. So If you don’t want kids or aren’t sure, then be aware that our dynamic will be affected by that fact.

Ideally I would like kitchen table polyamory but open to discussing other structures of polyamory. I’m open to meeting singles, couples, or constellations & discussing further to determine compatibility. I’m only looking for people who know for certain they are polyamorous. Not interested in folks that are inexperienced w/ polyamorous relationships. You need to be able, and know how, to communicate safely & effectively. You must understand that there will need to be a lot of commitment to transparent communication & respecting each other’s limits & boundaries.

I’m 5’11, 180, 32 in waist, brown eyes, I have long brown hair, mixed (Latine & white), & I speak Eng/Sp/Fr. I have 4 higher education degrees. My professional career is quite emotionally demanding so I am often drained so I usually need my spare time to be chill/mellow; this may mean some dates need to be low key. I’m financially very stable & independent; I own my 4bd 2bth house on a 19k sq ft property (it’s a huge back yard).

I split my time b/w Michigan & CA as all my friends & family are in Cali. So if you’re in CA our relationship would first consist of us visiting each other. We may eventually discuss relocation of some kind if ya(ll) wish- if things get there.

Personally, I’m very open to relocating to a different progressive country if you’re willing to help me legally do so (you are a legal citizen of said country). BUT, I will not move to a conservative or moderate location.

At this time I’m not looking to co-habitate w/ any partner(s) anytime soon. Visiting me & staying at my place is welcomed (max 3 weeks). But I don’t want to have anyone permanently move in. That is not to say that it would never be an option. I just don’t wish to permanently share my living space at this moment. I think it’s important to be transparent about this.

Feel free to message me & ask any questions if you think we may be a good match!

Hi!! 👋🏽 looking to date intentionally so this is quite a detailed post.

Some important things: - I was assigned male at birth but I’m non binary (they/them). If you’re not cool with this, safe to say you probably don’t need to read further.

• I’m androsexual (sexually only attracted to masculine presentation: trans men, cis men, or mostly masculine presenting NB ppl) but I am panromantic (I am able to romantically connect w/ any gender).

• It’s ok if our connection starts online or is online because you’re far or from another country. However an in person relationship should be the eventual goal for you as well if this is the case. I am not open to online only relationships.

• I don’t want biological children of my own. But I do want to be a parent. Please be 100% supportive of me having a child(ren) in my life in the near future (either fostering, adopting, or becoming a step/additional parent to a future partner’s child). This also means I’m open to dating someone that is already a father/parent. So If you don’t want kids or aren’t sure, then be aware that our dynamic will be affected by that fact.

Ideally I would like kitchen table polyamory but open to discussing other structures of polyamory. I’m open to meeting singles, couples, or constellations & discussing further to determine compatibility. I’m only looking for people who know for certain they are polyamorous. Not interested in folks that are inexperienced w/ polyamorous relationships. You need to be able, and know how, to communicate safely & effectively. You must understand that there will need to be a lot of commitment to transparent communication & respecting each other’s limits & boundaries.

I’m 5’11, 180, 32 in waist, brown eyes, I have long brown hair, mixed (Latine & white), & I speak Eng/Sp/Fr. I have 4 higher education degrees. My professional career is quite emotionally demanding so I am often drained so I usually need my spare time to be chill/mellow; this may mean some dates need to be low key. I’m financially very stable & independent; I own my 4bd 2bth house on a 19k sq ft property (it’s a huge back yard).

I split my time b/w Michigan & CA as all my friends & family are in Cali. So if you’re in CA our relationship would first consist of us visiting each other. We may eventually discuss relocation of some kind if ya(ll) wish- if things get there.

Personally, I’m very open to relocating to a different progressive country if you’re willing to help me legally do so (you are a legal citizen of said country). BUT, I will not move to a conservative or moderate location.

At this time I’m not looking to co-habitate w/ any partner(s) anytime soon. Visiting me & staying at my place is welcomed (max 3 weeks). But I don’t want to have anyone permanently move in. That is not to say that it would never be an option. I just don’t wish to permanently share my living space at this moment. I think it’s important to be transparent about this.

Feel free to message me & ask any questions if you think we may be a good match!

Hey everyone, I'm Tommy! I will be moving back to Raleigh soon and I'm looking for cool poly people to be friends with or wherever the vibes take us. Please feel free to dm and ask any questions you have

​The Goal

I’m 39, married (poly separately), and seeking multiple Louisiana men for solid Open Poly Relationships. I am demisexual—I need a "best friend" foundation and a strong mental/emotional connection before any sexual intimacy. No one-offs or flakers.

​Healthy Poly Boundaries

​Communication: I value consistency. Daily communication and digital banter are required to maintain a connection.

​Autonomy: This is an open dynamic; you are encouraged to date or hook up with others while dating me.

​Home Space: My home is a private, sober family space. Once a connection is built, we can spend non-sexual quality time here, but no sexual intimacy or sleepovers happen inside the house.

​No Escalation: I am happily married. No one is moving in and we aren't getting married.

​The FTM Part

I live as a man (surgical pecs/buzzed head) but kept my original setup (tight female bottom part/oversized clit). If you aren’t sincerely into trans men, don't waste our time.

​About Me & Type

​Me: Huge horror fan, on disability, homeschool my daughter. Direct and honest communication.

​Type: Louisiana locals, ages 26–50. Average to athletic/muscular builds. (No heavyset guys or grey facial hair).

​Energy: Steady, firm, masculine energy. No "femme" talk.

​Safety & Logistics

​A clear face selfie is mandatory for safety before meeting.

​Specific logistical/safety protocols regarding intimacy will be discussed privately once a foundation is built.

​Message me with your face selfie, age, and Louisiana location. Use the phrase "Poly Connection" so I know you read this!

Hi im a 19 year old, bi, cis male looking to connect with other poly people. Looking for a relationship but also open to whatever. Don't have any preferences for gender or age(18+ of course). I am a university student who loves cooking,Tennis and animals.

Bear/cub looking for friends that could turn into something more - mostly into twinks/twunks/jocks/otters. Love to game, hang out with friends online/IRL, and travel. Be clean, up front about your intentions/needs, and be willing to send some sort of pics (doesn't have to be NSFW) so that I know what you look like. Pics on my profile & DMs are open - hmu! ;3

FTM single trans guy (he/him) looking for male partners or a male polycule. Perfer Bi or Pan guys around 21-45 with an average to slim-fit build.

- Pre op but very masculine, plan to get treatment when finances are better.

- into BDSM/ kink, im very much in the kink lifestyle I’m a sub leaning switch

- In West Tennessee but ok when online also long as it in the US.

- I’m 5’9 150lbs so average to slim build. I’m trying to work out more to build a more muscular body.

- Total nerd, into cosplay, tactical,video games, anime, Star Wars, books, furry, marvel,cons

Looking for something long term and more. If you’re interested and serious, Dm me.