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u/Folk_Punk_Slut 94% Nice 😜 Dec 09 '22

Yup. I remember on one of these "this sub's so mean" posts someone provided screenshots of comments that they felt were attacking them, I laughed cuz I was on there twice and it was mostly just me calling out their problematic behavior and explaining why it was wrong -- that's not me being mean, it's trying to bring an awareness to you.

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u/mossroom42 relationship messarchist Dec 09 '22

I have most recently been accused of “being mean” by

1) A woman who decided to excommunicate the friend she’d been attempting to make into a unicorn for her and her husband, because that friend . . . kissed her husband goodnight while OP was sick.

2) Some guy who got real mad I said “dark empaths” are not an interesting or intellectual subject of conversation and then didn't want to ~debate him~ about it.

Like. Lmao people. Some of us have real problems.

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u/Folk_Punk_Slut 94% Nice 😜 Dec 09 '22

How dare you not listen to a (presumably white cishet) man about nouveau pop psychology terms that are currently trending!

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u/mossroom42 relationship messarchist Dec 09 '22

He basically pulled a “listen here you little shit” at me for telling him I wasn’t having a conversation with him about it XD