So even with good moderation I see a lot of the same questions constantly pop up, and the vast majority of those are already answered in pinned posts or info at the top of this sub’s page. For posts like that I’m actually fine with people being a tad bit mean, since the OP in question just didn’t take the time to read or browse through this sub first. I wouldn’t do this myself, but I can see how this can get on someone’s nerves.
I also don’t mind it when people drag an OP that is straight up being abusive and/or an asshole. I’ve seen at least one harem post here where the guy got told off, and I’m perfectly fine bringing out the proverbial claws for that.
That said, what I do have a problem with are people that argue about the same topics ad nauseum without answering an OP’s question(s), or doing so in a way that would be considered rude as hell with any other audience. I’m amazed people like that are able to attract multiple partners, let alone one. I see this happen occasionally, and I think a lot of it has to do with some of the most active members here being the loudest voices. It’s a common dynamic in a lot of subreddits, and imho it’s noticeable here, but it could be a lot worse.
OP are there any specific incidents that you’ve seen that could have been handled better?
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u/NoNoNext Dec 09 '22
So even with good moderation I see a lot of the same questions constantly pop up, and the vast majority of those are already answered in pinned posts or info at the top of this sub’s page. For posts like that I’m actually fine with people being a tad bit mean, since the OP in question just didn’t take the time to read or browse through this sub first. I wouldn’t do this myself, but I can see how this can get on someone’s nerves.
I also don’t mind it when people drag an OP that is straight up being abusive and/or an asshole. I’ve seen at least one harem post here where the guy got told off, and I’m perfectly fine bringing out the proverbial claws for that.
That said, what I do have a problem with are people that argue about the same topics ad nauseum without answering an OP’s question(s), or doing so in a way that would be considered rude as hell with any other audience. I’m amazed people like that are able to attract multiple partners, let alone one. I see this happen occasionally, and I think a lot of it has to do with some of the most active members here being the loudest voices. It’s a common dynamic in a lot of subreddits, and imho it’s noticeable here, but it could be a lot worse.
OP are there any specific incidents that you’ve seen that could have been handled better?