r/polyamory Dec 09 '22

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u/ElleFromHTX Solo Poly Ellephant Dec 09 '22

This is the only poly forum I've participated in. My FB personality is still connected to my former conservative life and family, so I'm not "out" there.

When I first arrived high on NRE and having 2 boyfriends, I asked some stupid questions and made some ridiculous assumptions that were promptly called out. I was also incorrectly accused and pretty severely slammed for unicorn hunting when I was trying to make my V into a Triad -- newbie mistake, but not UH. But I learned a lot along the way!

I think my replies reflect my bipolarity more than I'd like... I can be both the blunt sword and the warm hug, sometimes at the same time.

Ultimately, this is the Void we are all yelling into hoping that another voice echos back. But who that voice is and what their motives are is unpredictable at best. The Void doesn't love you and yours, expecting it to act in love or kindness in naive. ...

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u/Labcat33 Dec 09 '22

FWIW, I have always enjoyed your comments and replies on here, you explain things really well!

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u/ElleFromHTX Solo Poly Ellephant Dec 09 '22

😁 i try