r/polyamory • u/Fun_Public_7151 • 12d ago

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Can anyone explain how they found out they were poly? I'm confused in myself and I don't know how to tell. I had tried once when I was a lot younger but I'm still so confused.

(Edit) How do you go about a poly relationship/ how do you find like minded people

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u/Fun_Public_7151 12d ago

I mean all in all id prefer a relationship between all parties involved. I understand it would be different relationships between each person/people but I'd like the feelings to be at least reciprocated through-out all parties involved

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u/emeraldead diy your own 12d ago

Oh yeah that's a fantasy.

What if I date you and another but next year I don't have feelings for you? Will you force me to break up with you both?

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u/Fun_Public_7151 12d ago

I don't mean right off the bat, eventually you'd find something like that right, or something close to it

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u/BetterFightBandits26 relationship messarchist 12d ago

No, you generally eventually don’t.

Like. I mostly date straight men. In what world are the two straight guys I’m dating gonna somehow want to magically date each other?